#perfectlyimperfectmom
When you become a mother you realize after a while, suddenly for the unknown reasons, the whole universe has come together to judge you no matter what you do.

If you are an extra sensitive person; , then the stress goes to another level, it's becomes a lifetime achievement for me , if by any chance I back answer.

What matters you the most is your baby and; over the time you just learn to ignore. But you know what....the wisdom doesn't come easy, there are; chances that you want to avoid but 90% of the time, those ugly phases and unpleasant voices keeps doing rounds of a brain, making; you doubt youself and your parenting methods!!!

There are lots and loads of occasions where I become double faced creepy woman, where I say things which I actually don't want to say at all.; I want to say something else... let me tell you what...

🗨 Since I am a SAHM, people often ask me how come you don't get bored staying at home 24 hours?

☺WHAT I SAY: Baby keeps me on my toes all day, so I actually don't get bored.

👿WHAT I ACTUALLY WANT TO SAY:; When you have lots of time and nothing to do ,then the boredom strikes. You are asking me this question, which means you think I have nothing to do. Then, who does cooking, feeding, cleaning, loundry, dish washing, changing diapers, again cleaning, cooking feeding, ... I don't have time to get bored, and if I do, I am not bored as much I am bored with you right now!!!!


🗨 Now you won't be able to go back to work again..
☺WHAT I SAY: I know.. but I am trying really hard!!

👿WHAT I ACTUALLY WANT TO SAY:; What do you mean by going back to work? What kind of a work you are talking about? Because as far as my days are concerned,

I am already working around the clock , without pay, without perks, without sleep..I am a already a care taker, the advisor, cook, swiper, doctor, engineer, lecturer, dancer, singer,; interepreter... what work exactly you are talking about huh???

🗨 Oh he is sick again...why?
☺ WHAT I SAY : yeah, I think I will have to pay attention to his immunity.
👿WHAT I ACTUALLY WANT TO SAY:; what do you mean again? Does that mean I don't take care of him? Why don't you do it yourself? Stop environment from changing every now and then if you really care. No one likes to sew thw child sick.; He is a human being, specifically, he is a toddler...his body responds!!


🗨Is he not potty trained yet??
☺WHAT I SAY: No, but we are getting close.
👿WHAT I ACTUALLY WANT TO SAY: You know potty training can go till 3 years of his age. It depends on so many factors, which you don't even realize. And wait, who goes to college in a diaper? No one right!! Then stop giving me those non commental looks which says your child is ages behind his age... because he is not!

🗨 You say No to often. You should try to become a YesMom!!
☺WHAT I SAY: Oh yes...that's really interesting..I would definitely give it a try!
👿WHAT I ACTUALLY WANT TO SAY: Just because I used the word NO in front of you several times, you think I love shouting and saying NO 24 /7?

Well..FYI...I don't..;; And YES I am a YESMOM, it's just I don't give in to his nonsense demands for no reason. When you are busy commenting on my methods, saying NO in a loudest of my voice is all you can do to stop him rather than explaining him..

🗨Why he is aggressive? Is he always like that?
☺WHAT I SAY: Yes, he is little aggressive. I am working on it!
👿WHAT I ACTUALLY WANT TO SAY:;

For god sake leave him alone.He is a toddler he is still learning to go through the rush of the emotions. He can't control his thoughts yet and there is no real way to understand.
And guess what...he Is my son.. and you haven't seen my aggression yet because if you had seen you wouldn't have said these things about my child and would have scared to death on my thought of wrecking your head against the wall!!


🗨 When people comment on my weight
☺WHAT I SAY: 😐 ( I don't say anything!!!)
👿WHAT I ACTUALLY WANT TO SAY:

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GO TO HELL YOU JERK!!!
However, now a days I am back answering some of them and Guess what....my husband is loving it!!!