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Reading all the Love Actually posts... M feeling sad... One I and my hubby are not talking.. and off late he's getting angry on small small things... And then he won't talk for days to me.. he will never be sorry if he has hurt me... Even he's wrong I try to patch up but he will show so much attitude and I now I don't feeling like trying to patch even.. we both will only talk to our kid... He won't even respond if I ask him for food....; Feelin so lonely.. and want to run away from this life..

And next week is my birthday.. don't know even if he will even get a cake or not..
Sorry for this vent out.;
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Sheeba Vijesh

some men are not upto the "special" things we do... so just don't bother with that... and true love isn't about changing yourself for the one you love, you just get irritated beyond a point. Do the things you love and enjoy, but adjust according to hubby. For eg, if you love to work, but hubby doesn't like you to, you could try work from home... just an eg... If need be, seek professional help...

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Thanks <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @6372999217d2c800158d8bec </b></font>; but it's exactly opposite.. I have changed so much for him after marriage but he never seems to be satisfied.. ours is love marriage but still he will have some problem or other with me.. I was working women so was quite living on my terms..I calmed down and even left things how they are so noone feels bad.; Else inlaws always had issues and hubby wanted more peace and harmony at home... <br> Have tried to do special things for him.. but after a point nothing matters to him.. <br> Feel very left out sometimes now.. &#128531;&#128531;

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Nisha

Talk to him about this.; Ask him what's bothering him.; Hope things will be better.; Take care

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Sheeba Vijesh

hi dear, i hope what i say doesnt hurt your feelings, but introspect on yourself.... do you tend to nag? Does your husband feel you are thankless inspite of doing things for you? Do you keep finding faults or are demanding when he is facing difficulties financially or at office. Men and women think very very differently and often there is a big communication gap which leads to fights. I didnt say that you are bad, i was saying that what seems harmless to you may seem irritating to your hubby. Try to have a heart to heart talk. Tell him openly that you really wish to work on the relationship. Ask him to help out and try to sort things out... most often, the problems can be simply solved by communicating openly in a non blaming way...

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gaytri rao

Love your hubby. And keep smiling . Everything we will be fine. Show your lov nd care to him

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