▶️Separation anxiety is children’s common and normal fear of being away from their parents or guardians . This behaviour that you see when children are separated from parents is sometimes called stranger anxiety/protest.
▶️It can start at around 8 months and reach its peak in babies aged 14-18 months.
▶️These anxieties are a normal part of development and are nothing to be concerned about.
❔How to help children with separation anxiety?
▶️If your child is suffering from separation anxiety, there are lots of things you can do to help him/her ❇️At new places,If leaving your child in a Daycare/preschool/friend's house/babysitter.
(spend time at that place with baby before separation. This way yiur child will be less distress & feel safe.)
❇️Give your child something that he/she loves from home,like Teddy,pillow or blanket or their favorite toy. This will help your child feeling of home.
❇️Inform your child's daycare/preschool about his/her separation anxiety & let them know the way you soothe your child.
❇️Tell your child when you are leaving & when you will be back.
Sneaking out without saying/letting child know can make things worse.
❇️Your child might feel confused or upset when he realises you're not around & might be harder to settle the next time u leave him/her.
❇️Engage your child in an enjoyable activity before you leave.
❇️Make child understand with books/stories about the fear of separating from parents.
❇️Avoid criticizing/negativity about your childd difficulty with separation. Don't tag your baby as a 'Cry Baby/Mumma' s Boy/Daddy's girl
❇️Dont shout/yell at your baby.
❇️Make efforts to raise child's self-esteem by giving lots of positive attitude and attention. 🔅Separation Anxiety Symptoms.
▶️Doesn't likes being separated from you.
▶️Worries that you or him might get hurt/face any discomfort.
▶️Refuse to go to child care/pre-school or day-care
▶️Refuse to sleep at other people's place without you.
Gurjeet Kaur
Like
Reply
23 Dec 2019