So last weekend me an hubby went to trivandrum for a small function leaving Riaan with my mom. We went for two days and its 12 hrs journey; so didnt want Riaan to strain .We were very sad we cudnt take him along. The whole journey we talked about him..saw his videos..snaps etc. Its been a while i talked to my hubby for this long after Riaan was born. Thats when i realised we hardly talk .

We reached the hotel and got fresh went down to the lobby.. ter was tis silence between us. We reached the restaurant and started having breakfast..but only thing we talked was wen is our friends comin?..how is Riaan?...do you want coffee?....etc etc....wer was tat old passion between us? Wer were those lil jokes? Wer was tat look into the eye moment? R we just Riaans parents than bein husband an wife? Friends? Lovers?These thoughts poured inside me the whole time. We had this; line of barrier to start ...but y? We are happy couple? Aren't we?

Thats when my hubby asked me ...what's wrong with u? Y don u talk? Wer r u? I was like "me" !!

We fought for an hour...and i walked out of the room. As usual he came to pacify..this time i was not in a mood to continue an patched up fast ...

Then we went for lunch ....we had our own time...we talked about everytn...we laughed..we were so relaxed..those two to three hours it was just us...we both were so happy...somethin blocking; inside was out...

We decided once in two months atleast we must hv our own time...to find us ...to be us..not parents..but just us.
I feel each of us take our relationship for granted once the baby comes. It shouldnt be so. We may seem happy but we reallyare not. We need to spend time with our husbands..tey feel very neglected actually.
So tell me ladies wats ur relationship goals..how do u keep the love strong...Do you also have time alone ...?