I  never had care taker for my baby.  My husband helped me a lot.  He changed diapers,  clothes and  nowadays helps her in her homework and  art and craft activities. I too have just bf my baby till she was 6 months old.  Then I started giving her roti, sabji, dal, chawal with less chilly.  We eat icecreams during winter too. 

yes we break stereotypes, in our tradition all house he chores ate responsibility of daughter laws, but my family is supportive and doesnt follow this however some relatives are not happy with it. since my babys nicu discharge he needed to be care 2oo percent and I was alone for everything and some times my husband , I left everything g and concentrate d on my babys well being n care, each n evey thing as no one was allowed to even touch him till 5 months. we kept cook,for help ,....as I couldn't cook ,my father in law helped me to eat when I forget to eat my food when I was stuck with my baby care, my father still makes laddos for me for my hethy recovery 😃 my mil as is weak and not healthy    ....so many stereo type broken....I also face lot of criticism for that but I have learnt to believe in self and continue the right things....

I never kept anyone to tk care of my baby or bayi or any one oil malish.. I broke the steriotype by doing everything of my own with hubby help, n she is well grown baby with very sharp memory n intelligent mind.. She remembers everything by now.. Colors.. Animals.. Words.. Objects.. N many more rhymes without going to play school yet.. So modern mom can do everything when she is determined n also I love to make her dance.. Play cricket..mk her learn karate.. N explore everything which a boy can do..

We are breaking the stereotype that driving is a man's job, people need to change their mindset about women drivers. my husband is not a fan of driving and that's why it's me who drive everytime and hubby sits by the side and handles the baby. may be 1 day my son will say that my mom drives way better than male drivers. And 2ndly, we never mention the word in-laws (as in we don't say apki family meri family, we say hamari family) at home. I, being the only child, am taking care of my mom the way I used to do before marriage. And I am sure my son is getting that msg very clearly that even after marriage a girl can take care of her parents without asking for permission from anyone. ❤

This topic is very close to me and I have breaked the stereotype of making my twin boys wear pink colours, play with kitchen sets...They are just 3 years but then also they help me with all the household works..