Hi Anon, I can understand your frustration and helplessness. But, I think you are able to think positively. First  you have to take care of yourself and your baby. You have to keep yourself happy and occupied. Make yourself busy by doing regular activities - also, it is a good idea to go back to studying and think about job  even if he is ok. Do not try to oppose your MIL. Rather, win trust of your husband by being positive. Also, it is very common for men to have a phase of depression after delivery. Let him be for a few more days and understand that he too is feeling upset. But, he only  can do anything about it. You, have to take care of yourself and your baby.

as u said may be bcz of C-section he is not comfortable. n as everyone is saying we all go through such phases.  if u want to study hard n get a job, go ahead that's not a bad idea...but don't be upset.   take care of your baby and yourself..if you are happy then you will raise a happy baby...

don't worry as new mom dad too goes thru&nbsp; past partum depression without knowing as u said u lost ur FIL&nbsp; n having baby n work all this could be the reason so just spend quality time ur hubby n baby n everything will be fine... as u said u C-section so this cud b the reason ur husband might b avoiding intimacy just to be safe....so it didn't hurt <u>u</u>

anon..<br> it happens..<br> some times even dads go thru post partum blues nd they never know it....<br> give time...it wil be ok..<br> dont negative talk with him...<br> all will be fine soon :)

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