when any thing happens bad with a women , people always have there judgement n opinion ,band worst is it's thrown by aSther women only. I am feeling sad n thought to share this to relief myself. since my premature delivery I have contact with sensible n nature people becz I understood that every one is not enough mature to handle that mental dilkema, depression n shock ,, unexpressed feeling I hv gone thru. after all that when I have come strongly taking my motherhood with efforts n blessings, still there r people who f8bd room in making gossips of the most sensatove issue of my life. being mother of preemie is hard most becz u have that guilt in your heart of not giving 9 months to your baby, I had done all my counselling by sharing it rightly reading and growing up and do7bf best for baby without looking back. today I don't want to name a close relation lady again had an opinion that since I didn't care myself much during pregnency preterm happened, I though remember my insulin shots and every effort I did for sugar n poly , may be I had not done b3st , may be I have gone office just for a day after sui, but some will keep judging u n will make u wn n guilty that I was a bad expecting mom .I know n trust myself but m feeling hutted ad this when done by your close people.i am strong I thought but deep inside this bad judgement effects me ..m feeling bad. yjouo share. does preterm delivery is always r3sult of not being perfect expecting mom, ad I didn't do any wrong things but yes I was emotional n I was not perfect which lines people judge me, having a complication I'd your fault ?