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Me aap ko apni kahani batati hu meri kahani me vese to kuchh khash nahi hai par fir bhi jo ladkiya pregnant hone se darti hai ya fir delivery ke dard se dar ti hai use motivation degi. Meri do beti hai aek 5 year ki chhoti 14 din ki. Pehle to hamne socha tha aek beti hi bas hai par jab vo badi hui to vo akeli pad rahi thi to hamne socha aek or bhai ya Ben honi chahi ye jise use aage jake life me koi apna Ho. Fir hamne dusre bache ke bare me socha or me pregnant hui. Me or mere husband akele rehte hai. Suru aatke 3 mahine thodi problem hoti thi sirf badhar ki smel achhi nahi lagti thi. Muje kabhi vomit nahi hui kabhi chakkr nahi aaye khali smel pasand nahi aati thi. To fir padso khana dete the ya fir kabhi bahar se late the aekle rehte hai to bahar ka khana bhi kabhi khana padta tha. Mere husband ko chai ke alava kuchh Banana nahi aata . 3 mahine Bad koi problem nahi thi me ghar ka sara kam bhi karti OR meri beti ko bhi sabhalti. Mere husband kai bar bolte kamvali rakhlo par muje koi problem hi nahi tha to muje jarurt nahi lagti to me mana kar deti. Meri pehli delivery bhi normal hui thi. Me har roj dudh, fruit, drayfruit , nariyal pani.,sabji roti, dal -bhat khati. Or do time wok karti. Aek time to meri bachhi ko school se lene jati pedl chalke oske school ki aane ki khushi me 2 km chal leti pata hi nahi chalta. Or harroj jane ki ichha bhi hoti beti jo itne ghanto Bad ghar aati thi. Ae mere liye bahot achha tha ki use lene ke bahane achha wok ho jata tha or hamesha jati. Ghar ka kam khatm karke. Varna kya hota hai aek do din jayenge or do din nahi jayenge nahi aaj mood nahi hai kal jayenge. Par mere liye beti ko lene jana rutin ban gaya. Mere pas gadi bhi hai fir bhi pedl jati. Itna chalne ke Bad bhi me kabhi thakti nahi. Meri beti ka sara kam bhi me akeli hi karti jese school se lana chhodna usko home work, classic khana khilana uske sath khelna. Me activa leke jati to meri padosi sab muje datte aap mat chalavo aectiva. Meri chinta karte the sab is liye. Par fir bhi me jati. Mere husbund professor hai or hostel ka bhi dhayn rakhana padta hai to unke pas ghar ke liye jyade time nahi hota .to ghar ka kam bahar ka kam beti ko sambhal na sab me akeli hi karti thi. Or muje ae sab karne me maja aata hai. Aesa lagta hai jese me sab kar sakti hu.ghar ka bahar ka. Kai bar to mere husband ke kam bhi me kar deti hu. Mere padosi log kehti hai ki aap me bahot himmt hai ki itni chhoti si umr me aap ae sab karleto ho vo Bhai pregnant hone ke bavjud bhi. Mera 8 mahina lag gaya tha to meri sas aai thi kuchh din rehne ke liye or kam me help karne ke liye to meto unse bhi kuchh kam nahi karvati thi to vo muje dat ti thi tu to muje kuchh karne HI nahi deti Ho to mere yaha aane ka kya matlb. Mene kaha me kar sakti hu to aapse kyu karvau. Meri sas meri padosio se bhi kehti muje to aesa lagta hai jese me aaram karne aai hu to vo log bhi kehte ham bhi kehte hai kam hoto kehna kuchh lana hoto kehna par voto samne se hame kehte hai. Or ha aek bat batana to bhul gai mere pehle 3 mahine ke and hi ME 3 bar traveling me 8 ghanta dur gai thi.me mere husband ki job hai vaha rehte hai or mere sas sasur or mummy papa. 400 km dur rehte hai. To vaha pe jake aati akele. Mere doctor log bhi bahot achhe hai. Muje 7 month tak har month checkup ke liye jana padta. 7 month ke Bad 15 din fir 8 din vese jana padta. Meje koi problem nahi thi to doctor bhi bahot khush hote the ke aap hamesa hasti hui aati ho OR jati ho. Meri beti bhi hospital sath me aati to vobhi bahot achha bolti hai or hasti hai to doctor bhi hamse usse bat karte or khush hote agr kabhi meri beti hamare sath hospital na aaye to doctor or staf ke log turt bolte aapki beti kyu nahi aai. Doctor ne to meri beti ka nam khilkhilat rakh diya hai. Vo aati hai to hamra puri thakan mit jati hai. Kyushi aajati hai chehre pe.muje sirf ask problem thi mera Hb 9.5. Tha fir doctor ne davai di or gud khajur hare Pate vali sabji ae sab khane ke liye kaha 7 month tk mera 10.7 huva doctor ne kaha aakhri tk 11 hona chahiye usse jyada hoto achhi bat hai. Mene padosi ko bataya to unhone muje khajur ke biscuits banake diye. Akeli khajur jyada pasnd nahi aati thi par biscuits to pasand aati thi me akeli rehti thi or mera savbhav bhi bahot achha hai is liye padosi mera bahot dhyan rakhte hai. Ae kehna reh gaya tha to bhichme likhana pada vaps aage vali bat par aate hai. Mere me hb thoda kam tha par muje usse bhi koi problem nahi thi sara kam achhe se kar pati thi. Meri sas 15 din rukke chali gai. Fir kyu ki me unko kuchh kam nahi karne deti thi or jate jate pyarse dant ke gai ab to jb aap logo ko lage ki meri jarurt hai tabhi bulana. Delivery me bhi meri jarurt nahi padegi. Mera 9 month lag gaya tha or doctor ko dikhane gai to unhone kaha pani kam hai. To din me 3 bar nariyal pani, jush chhas Sab pito raho hame pani badha na hai. Fir me ae sab piti rehti. Muje to fir bhi koi problem nahi thi. Kuchh din or doctor ko dikhaya par pani jyada nahi huva pani bahot kam tha mera 10 month bhi lag gaya tha doctor ko dikhaya to doctor bolte aapko delivery pain jesa hota hai mene kaha nahi bilkul bhi dard jesa nahi lgta kuchh. Me Thursday ko hospital gai regular check up ke liye haste haste hi to doctor majak me kehti kabhi to dard leke aaiye to doctor ne muje usdin pani kam hone ki vajh se delivery ab jaldi karde to achhi bat hai aesa kaha or pain ki davai di or kaha aadhi ratko bhi dard ho to aajana or dard na hoto Monday ko aana. Itne mahino me pehli bar muje dar laga pani kam tha or achank se ratko dard hoga or jana padega. Rat bhar achhe se nind nahi aai padosio ko bhi bataya. Aesa ho raha tha kab subh ho jaye. Sabere uthi to koi problem nahi meto bahot khush ho gai muje dard nahi huva meto taiyya hoke beti ko school chhodne ja rahi thi mere husband ne kaha me chhod dunga mene kaha nahi me chhodke aati hu. Morning me apni beti ko activa me chhodne jati school. Dophr ko pedl. Jake aai sara gharka kam kiya fir lene ja rahi thi to padosi ne data kyu ja rahi ho pedl mat jav mene kaha koi problem nahi hai. Or aesa kuchh huva to aapko phone karungi. Mera to vapsse rutin chalu ho gaya tha. Monday ko vaps dikhane gai to doctor hasne lage vaps haste huye aaye. Ab mera 10month OR 4 din ho gaye the to doctor ne kaha leber paina intjar kar te agr pani hota to par pani kam hai bahot or delivery ka vakt bhi ho gaya hai to kal 10 baje mornings me altarasaund karvake dekhte hai or fir aedmit karke delivery karenge. Gharpe pe sabko bataya doctor ne aesa kaha hai mere ghar Vale bhi aa gaye. Meri sas ki thodi tabiyat thik nahi thi to hamne nahi bataya ki tension legi vo. Morning me jagke beti ko school chhodne jane vali thi ki mere husband ne or mere papa ne danta aaj nahi aaj askhri din hai. Aaj Ham jayenge. Pehli bar meri betiko me chhodne nahi gai. Delivery ke din. Fir me hospital gai haste huve padosi se Mile sab kehne lage kuchh kam hoto bolna thodi der Bad Ham bhi hospital aayenge. Pehle altra saund karvaya usme bhi kaha pani bahot kam hai doctor ko report dikhai unhone kaha pani kam hai is liye intjar nahi karte. Hai leber pain karva dete hai. Ham ne ha kaha fir muje davai lagai 10:30 ko muje aedmit kiya .aadhe ghante Bad sister aai kuchh dard huva mene kaha nahi. Muje fir Botal chadai or usme do injection Dale hath me bhi do injection diye. Fir kaha likvid pite rehna kuchh halka kha sakte ho vomit ho gi kuchh khao geto to par usme koi problem nahi hai .par muje vomiting karna achha nahi lagta to mene kuchh khaya nahi sirf nariyal pani piya. Botl chadai gai thi muje fir bhi chalna tha OR me chalti thi aaram se 2 baje Bad doctor dekhne aaye muje. Me to aaramse hasti thi bate karti thi or chalti thi doctor ne kaha dard nahi Ho raha mene kaha nahi doctor bhi haste huae gaye. Fir 3 baje sister aai or usne davai rakhi uske Bad muje dard huva fir mene 7:30 ko bola ab doctor ko bulav kuchh hoga aesa lagta hai 2 mint me doctor ne delivery room me liye 7:34 ko to meri delivery hoi lebr room me gai ki 2 minit me meri beti ka janm huva meje sara dard khatm ho gaya. Meri beti ko dekh kar bahot khush hui me or fir se me to doctor se bat karne lagi doctor bhi kehne lage achhi himt rakhi aapne varna pani kam tha to normal delivery hui vo bahot achhi bat hai. Or kehne lage dusri kihlkhilat aai .aap jese peasant aate hai to achha lagta hai. Morning ko 9 baje to ghar pe aa gai.doctor ne jo davai di or dressing karne ko kaha vesa sab karti rahi. To aaj muje tanke me bhi dard nahi ho raha. Me achhe se chal sakti hu bes sakti hu. Aaj meri beti 13 din ki hui.

Me or mere husband bahot khush hai hamari femaly puri ho gai.

Meri Story me vese to kuchh nahi hai par mene sif isliye likhi hai ki sb pregnant hone me or delivery me dar jate hai to unko motivation Mile

Babe chakra me OR sab friends jese lagte hai to Socha sab ko batao. Sab ki alg alg taklife ho sakti hai pregnancy me. Hamesa khush raho.

OR ha meri sas kehti hai tume to delivery me bhi meri jarurt nahi padina.

Muje likhana to nahi aata fir bhi kosis ki hai thoda lamba bhi hai par likhne ka Man huva to likhdiya .

Kuchh bhul bhi hui hogi to sab apne hi hai.

Muje dekh kar aaj bhi log kehti hai aap ko dekh kar to lagta hi nahi hai aapki delivery hui hai



Nice story aap #momathon 3 par post kre aapki story ko 👍

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Sangita ji..bahut bahut dhanyawad apni story humhare sath share Karne ke liye...aapki himmat ki story sabko aur himmat dengi...

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