In my previous article, we discussed about how we should prepare our body for pregnancy.
Is mental or emotional health equally important, during and pre-post pregnancy?
YES!!! It is very important for a mother to be mentally and emotionally healthy to cope up with pregnancy, child birth and taking care of the baby.
But, do we really prepare for our mental or emotional well being?
NO!!! We don’t. Hardly anyone talks about mental health, before, during and after pregnancy.
A mother’s state before, during and after pregnancy affects the child to be born and after his/her birth too. If a mother has gone through traumatic experiences during pregnancy or was not mentally healthy, it manifests in child. Whatever mother has gone through during pregnancy, reflects in child’s personality. That is why, it is very important for all the mothers to take care of themselves during pregnancy holistically.
There are many physiological changes which you will be going through during pregnancy; physical as well as mental and you should be aware about them. So that, when you experience any of them, you aren’t caught by surprise. There are hormonal disturbances which can cause mood swings, crying spells, anger, irritability, etc. Baby’s energy is manifested through mother and hence, sometimes changes in behavior and nature of mother are also observed.
Post partum depression is also not uncommon. You should read about it and you should know your risk factors.
This phase also brings about a halt or slows down your career if you are a working woman, as your child will become the priority.
The pregnancy might not turn out the way you must have imagined and may have ups and downs when it comes to health.
Fatherhood also gives cold feet to many men. We often forget about the fathers to be and what they go through during and post pregnancy (of their wives’).
Being a father is also not so easy. They also see their wives going through a lot of physiological changes. Things are new for them too. Men might not be able to vocalize in most cases, but they too get anxious about the whole pregnancy and child birth processes. Not only this, they have to be the support to the wives (by all means). The whole family takes care of the mother but hardly anyone talks about the father.
We have to understand that mother and father are in this together and hence, preparations are required by both and not only mother. Even father’s mental well being is equally important as it affects sperms as I had discussed in my last article. During pregnancy too, father should equally participate in all the preparations a mother does. When a father to be, goes through all the preparations as described earlier, he too feels included. He is involved in the whole process, which is very important. Gradually, it sinks in for him that he is going to be a father. For a mother to be in that zone, does not require much efforts as she has motherly instincts and the whole process of pregnancy induces those emotions naturally.
Be there for each other, come what may. It will help you to sail through the whole process easily.
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