Mentally strong kids have parents who do these things
When we were little, parents;wererespected,;they didn’t need your help making decisions,;and quite frankly,;they didn’t want your opinion either. Not because they didn’t care or didn’t respect you, but because kids weren’t;involved in adult matters or the decision-making process. In fact, your opinion really didn’t matter much.
They;were;raising;us;to;be;the;best;we;couldbe,;to;mentally;strong;and;resilient.Our parent’s rules were very clear: They told us what to do, and we did it because they said so. I may not have liked everything they asked of me, but I did it. We were never the center of their universe and;the sun didn’t rise and set for us. And you know what? They were right.
In my surroundings I watch; parent are of different kind of styles.maternal mental issues are high and people's job to judge and link with some or other reason they don't try to figure out why and for what purpose .
How should we raise our kids mentally strong
; ; ;At every house there should be strict rules for children .and that should be followed no excuse will be granted.even if u r going to relatives or friends this rules should be maintained.and some of the rules are;
*No jumping or standing on furniture
*Till u finish Ur food u won't move from your place.
*No running in the house;
*While coming in Ur home from outside keep Ur shoes at its place.and go to washroom to get fresh
*You should not ask for snack at other home unless they serve you
; ;You should strictly tell them to obey and respect these and don't defend against rule and also explain them that this rules are going to be good for your future.
; ; If the kids don't obey or do the things which shouldn't be done we must say a loud no .I saw kids who don't worry they say so many things like telling back to their parents.they should strongly feel that if our parents are saying; ;a big no then we should obey them .if the kids are more s behaving or not listening to u then should give them warning like they will taken to picnic or will not have a toys for a week .or can't watch their fav programs in television.
; ; ; We should also spend time with them like cracking jokes or sharing Ur childhood memories.take them to garden with snacks and two bottles of water let them run and play like they want .their friends can be invited to park so they can enjoy their company.let them explore and play games parents can; be involved in this way parents can also enjoy with their children this all will make a great memories to be shared.
; ; ; ;I hope u will love my post and it will be helpful for momstars; #raisingkids #parenthacks