Is you child strong willed?

I often use to think what i did wrong that my kids are born with hefty dose of strong will ,earlier i use to think it is genetic trait but then slowly i realised that thing i was worried about is actually a blessing just that we should keep few things in mind

1.Patience is the key whenever your kid throws tantrum just dont react ,dont shout, just say a firm no in strong voice .i know being a mother its really difficult at times but there is no other way out as your toddler wont understand your anger instead he would disobey you more and you would end up stressing yourself.

2.Be a strong leader ,once you have said no dont change it to yes, no matter how much your child cries, just try to divert their mind either by showing their favorite toy or play his /her favorite Rhymes or clap or anything that diverts his/her mind .slowly the child would start understanding that your decision is final and it wont change .

3.Gently keep reminding them that their way is not only the best way ,hust keep repeating things you want to teach,slowly and steadly your child will start grasping. one day you will see the difficult stage changing into sweet stage of understanding.

4.Tell your self this stage is not going to last forever but it shall pass .studies have proved that strong willed children who are unreasonable in their childhood and difficult to deal with grow into a thoughtful and self motivated teenager.

So mommies take a deep breath and keep doing the needful in your own way without stressing out and losing patience ..there is no term as perfect mother but every mother is perfect in her own way.

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@khushboo chouhan

what an awesome post dear..! totally relate with this.. very nicely written! my both kids are super naughty & throwing tantrums all times😐 i started to be calm & not loose my patience at any matters..its tough but i noticed that its 100% better than anger & shouting on them !!

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Helpful thanks for sharing👍

All points are valuable and informative

Thank you madhavi and yes patience is the key dont loose your cool .👍

Thanks Reshma

Your welcome soumya

Very informative post

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