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I have a 4 year old lil boy and I believe that kids are impulsive by nature! They act and they forget but they remember our reactions forever, so always respond instead of reacting.

I believe disobedience in kids is triggered by many factors. Instead of punishing or scolding my child, I would work on the reasons causing such behaviour. It could be any of the following:

1) Indirect way of demanding more love and attention

2) Agitated /angry due to lack of ability to achieve something

3) Hungry /sleepy child will be always aggressive and disobedient

4) Simply out of curiosity- to observe our reactions

5) Imitating other children's behaviour

Solutions would be

🌼 To spend some quality time with my child and find out what is troubling him.

🌼Feeding him his favourite dish or cuddling with him off to sleep will definitely make him feel better

🌼Speaking lovingly and patiently will have a calming effect and make him understand that his behaviour is not ideal and he needs to discuss with his parents about his needs to make it easier for all.

🌼Respect and obey your child and his needs. This helps him understand what is expected from his as well.

At the end, remember he/she is your own precious child and not your enemy. You need not always win against them to show your authority. Instead , make them your best friends and cherish a lifelong beautiful relationship ❤ #BBCreatorsClub #anjalisays #anjaliwrites


Agree with you totally dear.. great post ! thanks for sharing !!

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Thank you so much dear Madhavi Cholera

Good share👍👍

very true i totally agree

Such a great post this is :)


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