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I'm married to a weekend couch guy.
He loves to spend weekends with kid at home. Does some chores when asked.
When younger I used to cry for that lack of attention towards me or going out on weekends.
I saw it brings no emotions in the other person.
Now I'm changed.
I made weekends mine. Saw positives in the situation.
Lazy means too lazy even to bother me. Isn't it freedom too? 😊
I have friends whose husbands force them to wake up early on weekends to cook for many guests. Though I miss that in a nuclear family residing in another city, I started taking advantage.
Beauty, socializing, health/fitness, learning, entertainment, all I do happily at home.
I do home facials, sleep more on weekends if no events.
Cook nice healthy home food and save health n money than malls.
Spend time on terrace with greenery around.
Learn a new concept of Digital marketing and finance, read good books, enjoy music or a movie at home with family.
Right now I'm sipping a cuppa Chai..Homes are heaven if our hearts are free from misery and expectations.
I successfully made my weekends very productive and more importantly, HAPPY.
I enjoy sunset/moonrise from my terrace. (Pic was yesterdays I think)
Dear ladies, I hear so many women complaining of lack of attention from hubbies.
The truth is we can't change them. If it's not abusive or bad marriage it is tolerable.
Emotional detachment is the key.
Don't ask anyone things they don't give. I will not encourage the concept of Wrong person coz none is perfect. Not even us.
It's important to be an enabler of peace and happiness at home which otherwise doesn't have much issues.
When they pay attention, let's be happy. Else, still be happy and spend time with yourself.
It's so easy to complain.
Choose a more difficult task of BUILDING. Enjoy your Being. Your beauty. Your intellect. Your compassion. Your finances. Build your own EMPIRE 🏢 and be the QUEEN 👑 ♥ 💎 💍 💵
Much love to this group of wonderful ladies😍
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