Something we all should know ❤
A Caesarean section is a lifelong scar from the birth of a child until the death of a mother.
People often passes remarks like, ""Oh, Caesar's pain is nothing but only cuts the stomach!
But let me tell you that the baby has to be brought into the world by cutting 8 curtains of our body. Maybe the feeling of cutting the abdomen is not understood coz of anesthesia before a c-section but within half an hour. This spinal injection injected into the spine through a thick syringe causes great pain in the back of woman.
The next 24 hrs brings immense pain, that kind of pain where u feel somebody has chopped one of ur body part but had not applied medicine.
First 24 hrs u cant even turn yourself on bed, forget about walking by urself for washroom!
Believe me, when the retirement period of anesthesia is over, u have to squirm like a hen with a cut throat.
24 saline is given in 24 hrs & there is no need for me to say what is the pain in the injection site, when they puncture both ur hands one by one.
Still with all these struggles, we have to breastfeed the newborn & smile at the Relatives & on top of it listen to the 100 uninvited advise people around.
So, I want to ask people who age this mindset that a Woman who brings the baby to the world through C-section has no indepth connection with her child like the women who do ""Normal vaginal birth"" have with their newborns.
Sometimes long after the child birth we are tired & irritated, sometimes we cant get up immediately from sitting,
we cant bend & pick up the child,
We cant lift heavy things,
We cant walk for long,
We cant stand in ques,
As the back hurts bad
But still we do everything,
We have to because we are born as Woman & Become A Mother now.
And still, If you have to hear that it's simply nothing to have a c-section delivery,
It hurts a lot!
Hence, please remember that whether it's a Normal delivery or a Caesarean delivery - A woman, a mother, a wife (& so many roles she plays) has to go through Pain involved in both the cases & she deserves nothing but only respect & care.