#Its a weird feeling...when you feel sad and worried for someone who has given you so much pain which cant be even described in words...
It was a normal Monday morning and while I was finishing daily chores, I came to know that my MIL has been detected with tumor in kidney?..
I wont lie...my first reaction was like ok. Why should I even bother...after all that she has done to me I cant do anything... Since my marriage I haven't felt for a minute that she is something like mom. I lost my confidence because of her as she always said that I am not as fair or as; beautiful a DIL as she wanted. All my education, achievements, everything was not of any value in front of my colour. For more than a decade she has never cared about my pain or had never helped me or supported me during my pregnancy or even when I was sick or my kid was severely ill or anything. Years back I had stopped expecting anything.
But then I don't know what came over me. We don't communicate much but I called her, asked her about each detail in her report, searched the net to know as much as I can, called again and tried to calm her and assured her that I; am there for her. Will try and do whatever I can to help her..
Its strange that we humans sometimes behave in ways we have never thought . I seriously want her to be alright soon.

Hugs aditi. We are good humans thats why :) dont ever change!

True Asha di..its only humaneness in us that makes us do so..am trying to decipher her reports and reading on this topic,; as have graduated in biology and have little medical knowledge..may be it turns out to be not so dangerous and I can give her some relief. She is also a mother after all...like my mom!!

Hats of you aditi!!!; proud for these women like you! plz do everything as u r doing today in future; too..whatever her nature, but she is one mother ....hope she will get soon!

You have risen above your personal feelings.. You are a good person Aditi. Keep it up.

Thanks dear Madhavi Cholera and Anshu Bhojnagarwala for your best wishes...its just what a human should do for another human!!

Hugs to you dear ,afterall we are all humans with flesh n blood,be it good r bad we have to help each other...u r doing a grear job

Thanks so much dear Revauthi Rajamani

Lovely gesture.; Hope that she gets well soon.; My late MIL also had cancer.;

In past few days I have realised we should do our deeds without thinking of what they are doing to us, we should just follow our heart coz it iz always right, we all are with you

Thanks dear Nisha Dayal; and dear Mrs Chhoker

Sane thing happens with me....
Aditi u r very grateful for what u are..hope ur mil get well soon...

Thanks Mahi!!

U r a good soul Aditi.

Big hug to you dear..very well done,you are much stronger to handle it

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