Restless Rantings - Satarupa @ Babychakra

Sometimes life throws you a bouncer and you impulsively dodge it. You come across as a brave soul, who has head in place and get tagged as strong--to the point that the worst storms pass you over without as much as a flicker in the eye.

I have seen storms--small gusts, big cyclones -- but never of the tornado kind that seem to suck you up.;

I have been blessed with comfort and security in life but have battled minor wars -- thanks to conflicts and stress.; But then these only made me headstrong and a tight personality who remains calm even in the face of storm.

This day, I feel am I unfazed?; Have I become so headstrong that I don't put impulse and emotion over attachments and grief.

I cried yes but never to the point that acceptable as "just." Have I become stiff OR am I just pragmatic?

Losing my father didn't change me one bit. It didn't make me lock myself and grieve. It just made me redevelop my principles and make the best of life that is now!

Perhaps I should have grieved more but I simply am not able to let that happen. I still don't know why. I miss you Bauji and this trait I exhibit today is exactly inherited from you.; You've left me but you've left me stiffer and stronger. Yet I feel I dont cry enough.

:( Pic was on my first Anniv last year. Never imagined he'd never see any more of my annivs.

#fathersdayneveragain #daddylove #babychakrastories #kolkatamoms


Vidya Rathod Neha Mani Mishra Priya Sood Satyam Sharma KritiVika Rebecca Prakash

What a touching post dear satarupa... stay strong and much support to you for choosing to grieve and celebrate memories your own special way.. there is truly no one way to be and respect a life loved.. more strength and power and love to you my dear..

Oh Naiyaa.. your comment means so much to me.; Thanks for introducing me to this world of BabyChakra.; You have been my angel in disguise.; Naiyya Saggi

And you for so so many moms on BabyChakra. Your loved ones would be so proud of you Satarupa. We need more amazing women like you helping other women.

💕💕 You are one strong 💪 women I say!

More courage to you my dear!!! He is definitely proud of you.

You know what Sata, uncle is always proud of you. He is blessing you from the heaven. You are one of the strong person I come across in this group. More power to u dear, we love you.

A warm hug to u satarupa...

You are to strong 💪🏻😘

Beautiful post Satarupa.. Fathers are pillar of any girl's life. He is watching you and must be so proud of u as we are.. so many hugs and love😘😘

Nothing in the world prepares us for losing a parent Satarupa B Kaur .... Nothing. And we don't allow ourselves to grieve enough - this i say from observing my close friends and myself when we lost my FIL. Such a poignant post satt. Hugs, prayers, love. Stay stronger than strong and cherish his memories...

You are an inspiration to many of us. Stay blessed. :)


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