I shared my post few minutes back
Where I nd my parents became victim and my in-laws along with my husband became villian...and also I mentioned I tried to find out root cause of this problem too...
So it's time for now to share part 2
Yes,above lines were true for me also until nd unless I was not digging out of the problem...
Come back again to scene no 1 Day 22_reet
After all arugements I too thought that without any reason my in-laws my husband arguing with us,making scenes , scolding my parents...nd with no time I created an image of villans of my life ...it continues from day22 to day 40 were the spark between me and my husband gone,he ignored me I ignored him staying under 1 roof...we both were not able to make eye contact with our daughter too...we argued...we fought were he was supporting his family were I was supporting my family..gap between as increases day by day...I started blaming my in-laws for that in my mind ..
It's true that he didn't communicate with me for months and months well there was a reason too
While coming to my mom's place we had an argument and holding my ego I said I will never see back m going ...while going from home to station in cab I realized I didn't really mean it..he came to station following my cab then soon I said sorry why u argued with me that's y it came but it was too late...
My parents nd in-laws argued because differences in rituals...they started saying this was not done correctly..it should be done like this..my parents said in our side things are like this..then slowly slowly becoz of lots of misunderstanding everyone started hating each other.mean while me and my husband too lost trust from each other...
I knew that everything was going wrong.. suddenly my Happy family became sad one.. home nd mind both became mess for everyone...when I was at my mom's place nd no one from my family(in-laws nd husband) not communicating with me ...I decided rather blaming each other let's find out what's the cause behind this
I heard about these matters always with other life's too...nd like sliding morning news in Mobile I ignored all these but when it was happened with me then I realized things to be fixed
Yes,in my previous post everyone commented how strong I am, my daughter is lucky...but I don't think so...
Let me share in my next post why m thinking like this...and what happened next #cuddle #communitycuddles


Rashmi Choudhury

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Vidya Rathod

Still you are strong only yaar. U determined to find the reason and try to solve this is command able. I know how misunderstanding fuel the arguments. Waiting for next post.

Priya Dubey

Waiting for your next post

AMRITA MALLIK

This looks like a mommy take over. Go on pour your heart out brave girl. We are all here to be with you and support u in ur journey. We all have faced some or the other big or small set backs in our lives. But somehow we have managed to overcome and overpower them to be here. And every soul chooses its mother for a reason which has to be fulfilled.

Resham Java

Rashmi Choudhary u have to complete your post tonight or else I will have a slpless night. I can imagine how boldly u have fought over and dealt with situations.

Aditi Ahuja

It's really important to know why all this happened..it was a happy family situation and in just few days all this...

Shruti Budihal

Rashmi Choudhury year back same issue happened wid me. . A small ego spoils evrythng in happy lyf. .from day I realized that fights arguments r common in couples it's nt gud thing cm n sit in MammAs place.. nw I jst concentrating on my family(me,hubby, baby, ).. whatever v do gud things relatives dey throw negative points. I jst ignore dem n move on

Smitha Prabhav

I'm yet to read your earlier post Rashmi Choudhury but this is the same exact thing in going through right now and I know it's hell. At mother's place they regret getting me married and at my in laws place they think what kind of parents am I having. My husband and I are held together by a very thin thread.... Quite literally every breath I take is a test. I'm tired to be honest. I've even reached a point where I do not want to go back to my in laws and even thinking of starting separately...
I really look forward to your posts. It may help me in my journey. Prayers are all that can help now. The damage is beyond repair

Amardeep Mann

Waiting fr d reason .... ur nxt post...

neha singhal

Ya the reason is imp,; u jus can't sit at mama's place n blame them or can't be egoistic as well. . plz share the reason soon Rashmi Choudhury

Krutika Gor

Awaiting ur next post.;; Feeling a mommy take over... We all here are with u dear..;

Krutika Gor

Awaiting ur next post.;; Feeling a mommy take over... We all here are with u dear..;

Rashmi Choudhury

Smitha Prabhav
Ur just one thought away towards happiness...don't blame people for anything..it's just how we think about them...first of all please do Ctrl+alt+del from ur memory what happened..now take urself in their place and think why they did that...I know it's difficult but for few minutes of close ur eye and think is this the real purpose of ur life or ur also trapped by society and man made lifecycle....you and your husband both of u loves each other ...that's y a tiny little creature is now in ur hand... think about ur baby which type of environment ur going to give , what type of example ur going to set for baby....don't think negative...u can't afford it ...life is uncertain but journey is long...I am sure one day u ,ur husband,ur in-laws all be together and happily live after...be positive 🌻

Ankita Mishra

Rashmi Choudhury : great dat your life improved by your ignorance towards others action, however ignorance can't be solution for long term relation. A family is long term set up made by peace, love, care & accommodative behavior rather than ignorance & compromise. Mature people don't blame or make mould out of mole hill or don't lead to a situation where one has to compromise or ignore. Each person has a different story. No matter how rigid is ones family still there is something called emotional bonding between a man & woman. If they don't appreciate that feeling then the relation will be weak no matter how long one will stretch it by communication, pressure& ignorance.

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