You have to know that you are the it person who can solve your problem.So just discussing it with someone who cannot help you sort it out will it generate more negative energy ..
One person in pain and complains *(You) generating negative energy now after you share it with someone and again more negative energy is generated at that person also starts thinking about it . next that person goes and share with another person and so on...So now you have N number of people generating negative energies ..Which multiplies the negative vibes and reduces the chances of the issue getting sorted out ..
So it's better to imbibe a positive thougt and go and talk to the concerned person and sort it out with a positive frame of mind ..First create a positive thougt and say that everyone is a pure Soul..then go ahead and talk it out..Everyone is right in their own perspectives so acceptance is first then next we can explain our perspective !!!
Here we have a positive energy circle and the vibes give solutions to the problems..
*(A gist of a video watched last week..Sis Shivani )