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Pic: my in laws and huby, baby n me in shirdi
I hope you all enjoyed my love story and now m gonna share something about my in laws place. It's a very traditional set up where father in law always maintains a distance from daughter in law and one has to keep the head covered in front of them...yes that's true.. but being from a modern family where "bahu jeans pehenti hai to Kya hua ab nahi pehnegi to kab pehnegi"...is very common dialogue to ppl who comment on "bahu ka chaal chalan ".;
So I Decided to change this "kasa hua rishta" a bit and make it more " ok ok type".;
I used to wake up at 6am...used to freshen up had a bath wear a nice dress and then I used to step down to ground floor to my in laws, I used to touch their feet and say good morning.;
I slowly started talking to him more about his n my common fav topic politics! He seemed more interested and started opening up gradually..he used to tell me long tales about his life as a child...incidences and what not.
But one day I got up late as we had chit chats with my newly wedded devar n devraani late night( we go at inlaws place twice in an year, we r in Bangalore and they r in Delhi);
Me: papaji good morning...chai banau?
Papaji: nahi betaji hamne to pili,apki b bni Hui hai..garam karlo
Me: ok papaji. Thank you
Papaji: face expressions were saying (ye samjhi nahi isko toka ja Raha hai)
Day 2: same story, this time mother in law too joined us in chit chats. All got up late😂
Me: papaji, good morningchai banau?
Papaji: betaji aap thoda late hogae hamne pi li aur choti bahu kaha hai?
Me: papaji aarahi hai, me uski aur apni bana leti hu
Sasumaa: beta chai bni hai garam karle me b piugi;
Me: ok mummy
Day 3: no lesson learnt!! 😜Mother in law took out all the albums of family and we were up till 2am🤣
*Me n my devrani came together, I pulled her out from her room so that she doesn't get scolded for coming down late or ppl start glorifying badi bahu for waking up earlier than choti😏* CZ she is a sweetheart 💗💗
All of us, me my huby, my devar, devrani went down together ( saath milkar daant kahney me beizzati Kam mehsus hoti hai u know😋😋😂)
Braveheart me: papaji good morning "DOBARA chai bnau Kya?"
;My father in law burst into laughter..so as my mother in law.;
Papaji: ye ladki bahot shaitaan hai🤣
I didn't know a cup of tea and lil bit of himaat...( And a lot of luck😜) will change my Dynamics with my father in law forever. Now, we don't keep pallu in front of him. I am allowed to wear jeans with *long top* whenever he visits us or we go for outing! He is more open now...we laugh out memories and enjoy old melodies together.;
I never knew ☕ a cup of tea can do so much wonders💞
How is your relationship with your father in law? Would you like to bring any change in it? Please Share your thoughts;