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Today I'm penning down this post not just to say what pain is all about but it's a experience that I wish no one ever faces.

About 4 months back on the 17th of November, 2018 I welcomed a healthy and happy baby boy to this world with a normal delivery and was completely happy and blessed by the almighty of having an easy-going pregnancy too. It was all going good and great watching my baby in my arms, kissing his tiny hands and feet. It was truly a pleasure of enjoying motherhood. Things were all going normals until one month.

On the 10th of December, 2018 I observed a tiny white mark on the right side of my breast, I thought it was normal so I never told to any one after a day or two I saw it become bigger, I was a bit worried so I told it to my mom, who then took me to my gynecologist, who told that's it normal and written a couple of antibiotics for 5 days even after having the tablets I couldn't feel better, infact my breast began to become bigger and heavier so I consulted her again after 5 days, by then I had two milk clots developed and on the 19th of December, 2018 one of the clot has blasted and the pus began oozing out so I was rushed to the hospital and then the worst time began the gynecologist had asked to consult a General suergon and undergo an operation, I met the doctor and I was operated on the 20th of December,2018 leaving behind my 1 month old son who was also getting his first vaccination on the same day I underwent a surgery. The surgery was a 20 minutes one and I had my entire breast covered in bandages I just couldn't see my skin. I was discharged with 48 hours and I could only feed my baby from one side.

After the surgery I was advised to undergo dressing everyday which was a night mare I had wounds that where 3 and 7 inches deep and no stiches as it was a sensitive areas so it needed to be self healed.

Each day I would cry cry and cry for not just the pain I had physically but also the pain of not being able to feed my kid.

Time went on after a month I developed another clot on the right side again bcz I was feeding from my left so the right side couldn't release the milk produce. I was completely shattered and broken. I couldn't cope up with it. I was all broken and into tears, why did it happen to me all over again. My mom and dad gave me positive hopes and I again consulted my gynecologist and she gave me medication to stop my milk production as that was the only solution to stop the formation of milk clots in future. I started to the medicines advised and after about 15 days the milk had stopped.

For all this while I could not carry my baby and cuddle him all by myself I needed my mom to help me bcz of the heavy bandages.

I had the worst time of my life for the initial 3 months after my kids birth. It was all the support of my mom and dad that I decided not to give up and keep fighting back always to recover for not just myself but for my kid who needs my warmth and love.

So everyone out there, pregnant and who are about to have a baby please don't hesitate to talk to everyone and anyone about how to feed and what complications one faces before and after pregnancy. Please consult the doctor even for the slightest of the issue and if you notice anything please reach out to some one as early as possible.


Hmm thanks dear for sharing ur story.I can understand what u r going through but hats of to you,a real hero and thanks a lot for your advice

Hugs dear . It was a difficult phase indeed .

Oh god. This is so painful to even read i cannot imagine what yoi would have gone through. Having milk but not able to feed. Loads of prayers and love for you dear. I am sure it hurts you but also glad that you stayed positive and kept motivating yourself. It is not easy to fall but getting up also takes more courage.

Thanks for sharing n hats off to u for facing such situation

You are a super mom dear ....

Ritu Mittal Khushboo Chouhan

Thanks for sharing Keerthana . Can't even imagine what you would have gone through.. you are really brave.

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Hats off to you dear!!!

Keerthana ....with all that you have been through, hats off to you lady....you are a super mom....loads of love to you dear....take care .....

Hats off u dear ...bravo

Thanks for sharing, this will surely help those who are facing same issue. You are right don't hesitate to ask if u have any issue bcz the soon u ask the soon u will be helped out.

Realy powerful u r dear...god bless u n ur chutku..more power

It's very painful to read ur story but at last minute happy just because both of u r fine now.. hats off to u n ur courage.. may God help everyone 🙏🙏

Strong mind. Sure this will help other new mommies. Take care dear.

Keerthana First of all your baby boy is blessed to have a strong mother like you and I mean it. Secondly thank you for sharing and sensitising about the issue.. the first lines say it all... Penning it down so that no one ever faces such an experience.
I personally feel the same that many of us hesitate to share what we are going through be it physically, mentally or emotionally. We all need outlets. I will not hold back on saying that some of the media misguide many of us... Back to work (shape) after delivery of baby in x number of days.. no one wants to feel lesser than anyone else. Everyone wants to say look I'm back on my feet.. Blah blah.
We've to accept that each of us is different.. Each unique.. Each one of us is lovable. We want to portray strength.. How can we portray strength if we cannot accept our weaknesses? We are important too..
Happy mother.. Happy baby.
Doesn't matter whether breast or formula Fed... A baby fed, loved and cared for is the best according to me.
I love your post. It is written with the right intent.
I pray and hope for good health to you and baby!
I do not intend to hurt anyone's feelings or sentiments. These are my personal views and I do not intend to impose it on anyone.
Thanks once again!

Thank u dear fr sharing dis .. n hats of to d brave lady in ur positivity... 👍 .. by sharing u helps all new mom's to b aware of each n everything or change happening to ur body.. loads of luv n hug to u n ur baby..,🌺

Thanku for sharing hats off to u take care. U r rally super mom

Hats off to you bravo

Mom's get armed with another level of courage and strength once they deliver. And u are a very inspiring one dear. Get well soon. God bless ur baby.

Salute to your courage to face this type of problem and sharing with us for awareness.

Hats off to u dear

Thanks for sharing...hats off u

Carry on, brave mother who tries when she is tired!!
Carry on, brave mother who cries because she loves!!
Carry on, brave mother who hopes without answers!!
Carry on Brave mother!!
Lots of prayers to you!!
Kudos

Thanks for sharing your experience and cheating awareness about it! More power to you 👍

My goodness.. Hats off to you Mommy ❤️

Omg ... You are very brave .


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