Yesterday was open day at my son's school. We were to go and receive his results. I was nervous and was completing my chores quickly. I have wavering thoughts about his performance and grades. I was unsure of how my husband will react to his grades, as he is of strict personality on the outside and a loving concerned father on the inside. My parents, friends everybody was calling me to ask how did the event and how were Aayush's grades. Finally the moment arrived, his results gave me a sigh of relief and there was overwhelming happiness in our family. He passed with excellent grades.;
I was really happy with his performance, from the beginning I trusted his ability to do well. His teachers were also pretty much very happy with performance and ability to write fast. His teachers complaint was that, he is very unstable and always is on the move. I always encourage my Aayush, saying he is a special gift from God in my life and I always want to see him happy and healthy. You are special and my best son, who will make us proud and happy. I made sure to tell him that his father is very supportive and will support and encourage him in all aspects. Also, told him that his teacher should also feel proud of him and he should be the best student. Not everyone is alike, each of us is an individual and so are kids, each kid is different.;
We should be open with kids, motivate them, guide them and help them. We should let them explore and develop their skills. If they want to run, we should let them run, but tell them run slowly and don't hurt yourself. We can plan a schedule for them, time their play time, study time, TV time and so on. We should not hold them back from watching TV atleast while eating. I try to explain this but no one understands. Instead buy unhealthy fried foods , we can bake healthy stuff at home and give them. As parents, we should be with them while they are eating and encourage the intake of vegetables and tell them why should we eat vegetables.;
Parents needs to communicate with their kids and also with teachers to understand the performance of their kids and know how are things going on in school. If a kid not able to perform well teacher and parents can together help them in their education. It's important to sit and talk and be friendly with kids. Probably you sit and talk about yourself, about their childhood, about some favourite food, it will help build a bond. That way any day your child can come to you confidently and share any problem that your child is going through. Be tough, but also be their first responders
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