How Your Relationship Impacts Your Kids !

Whether we like it or not, our children are watching us all of the time. The saying that children are like sponges absorbing the world around them is especially true of the emotional atmosphere that surrounds them. When it comes to the relationship between their parents, no irritated eye-roll goes unseen, and no whispered criticism goes unheard. No matter how hard we may try to conceal problems, children are sensitive to the tensions between their parents and are directly influenced by the way their parents interact.

Many of us can remember occasions from our own childhoods when our parents were so involved in their emotional states that they acted as if we were invisible. Now as parents, there are times when we are so immersed in an interaction with our partner or spouse that we forget that we have an audience in our children.

We may try to fool ourselves that they are distracted playing on the floor, but little is likely to slip past them when it comes to dynamics between their parents. Whether it’s a parent who yells a lot or one who acts sullen and angry, these patterns directly impact our kids when they are young, and they often go on to re-enact them in their own relationships when they reach adulthood.

When children sense something is wrong between their parents, it often increases their anxiety and perpetual worry. They may start doing things to cut off their emotions. If they are afraid, sad or insecure, they may try to numb these emotions with such behaviors as overeating or excessively playing games. If they don’t feel they can talk to their parents, or their anger or hurt involves their parents, children may start showing their feelings indirectly:
throwing tantrums over toys, getting unusually clingy toward a parent, losing interest in school, getting in fights with other kids.(Most parents faced this , am i right ??)

So, parents be happy, be positive and enjoy parenthood with your loving kids! 

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7 Things Parents;Should Do for Their Kids Every Day
Whatever it takes to make contact, right? But physical affection is only one of the seven things moms & dads should do every day to create a strong parent-child relationship.;
None of these 7 things takes a lot of time, and each is worth every bit of effort.
1. Show;physical affection.

Physical affection doesn’t come naturally for everyone, but don’t let your discomfort keep you from making your child feel loved. Sit down and let your child crawl onto your lap.;Make hugging time fun. There will be a time when your kids won’t be physically present in your life every day, so get the affection in now while you can.
2.;Be fully present.

We know what we need to do to make this happen, but it’s not easy. We need to put down our phones, close the laptops, and stop loading our dishwashers and misc work when our children want our attention. Engage in conversations to learn more about them.;
3.;Be kind.

There is no doubt we love our children, but;love without kindness doesn’t feel very loving.;
4. Laugh with them.;

A strong parent-child relationship needs a good dose of levity. Laugh with your children at what they think is funny.;
5.;Discipline calmly.

For many parents, this is the toughest of the seven. Disciplining our children is best done when we aren’t fired up or frazzled. While screaming at them might feel good and appear to be effective, it’s really not. Keeping our cool while we shape our children helps us to;discipline with firmness instead of harshness.
6.;Use loving words.

A parent's words are powerful! Pausing for a moment before we speak to choose our words carefully can be the difference between harsh or flippant words and words that build our children up. Do your best to make sure that most of what you say to your children;conveys your love and acceptance.;
7.;Pray with them.

When we;pray with our children, we are showing them that;we rely on God. This teaches them that they can rely on God,too, and that God’s love for us is the basis of our love for them. #trending  #viral  #instagram  #instagood  #photography  #india  #trendingnow  #reels  #parents  #parentslove  #parenting  #kids  #positiveparenting

Being a parent is one of the toughest and most rewarding jobs in the world - and the one for which you might feel least prepared.
How often do you react negatively to your kids during the course of a day? Criticizing is more likely to happen than complimenting. Would you be comfortable working for a boss who offered you that much negative feedback, even if it was well-intentioned?
Kids observe their parents a lot to learn how to act.
 The younger they are, the more cues they pick up from you. You should ask yourself: Is that how you want your child to act when he or she is angry before you lash out at them or blow your top in front of them? Keep in mind that your children are constantly watching you. Usually, children with a home environment that models aggression are more likely to hit.
Be a role model for your kids by modeling respect, friendliness, honesty, kindness, and tolerance. 
Demonstrate unselfish behavior. Thanks and compliments should be expressed. The most important thing is to treat your kids the way you would like to be treated. #parentingbyritujain  #parents  #parentresources  #parentingtips  #accountability  #accountabilitymirror  #parentsresponsibility  #parentchild  #parentchildrelationship  #parentchildbonding  #manners  #mannersmatter 
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what you need to know as a parent
📢As a parent, your role is to teach your child how to behave through discipline.
📢The most effective method of discipline is to have warm and loving relationships with your children.
📢In order for a baby to feel safe and secure, they need to be given warm and loving care.
📢When it comes to toddlers and older children, discipline involves setting limits, enforcing consequences, and promoting good behavior. #parentingbyritujain  #solicitudeparentingbyritujain  #discipline  #disciplinechildren  #kidsdiscipline  #toddlerdiscipline  #lovingchild  #goodbehavior  #parentinghacks  #parents  #parentingcoach  #parentingadvisor  #onlinecoaching  #onlinecoach  #counselors  #counsellor  #counsellingforyourchild