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Topic: Relationship with Spouse After Children. Is marriage tougher or easier with a child? (On the way too) What has helped?
After my delivery,till 5months our relationship is going through a lot of ups and downs.My hubby don't want to give any time,not even helped me for anything but I shouted a lot,made my health condition worse and my little son used to get scared,as time passes I m realizing it's of no use fighting because I m spoiling my babies future.So now I think if I work more and give some extra effort there is no harm and my health will get better if I remain active, according to doctors.Now I m seeing changes in my hubby,as he comes,he plays with our son and also taking few responsibilities towards me.Ups and down will be there but we need to understand how we want to deal with the situation and what will be the consequences.
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22 Sep 2018
Archita Bhattacharjee
<b><a style="text-decoration:none" href="http://app.babychakra.com/hashtag/cuddle"><font color="#2b5998"><span>#</span></font><font color="#2b5998">cuddle</font></a></b> #communitycuddles . Relationship with my hubby is running with all ups and downs but at the end, everything seems fine only because of our baby. After having an argument , the moment I see my hubby playing with my baby, I forget everything. Though we don't get much time with each other, as we both are concerned for our daughter. But now we feel more involved in every day to day activities in the family.
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21 Sep 2018
Priti Singh
I am blessed that nothing has changed even after having my son Veer. Infact, understanding and support has got more highlighted after being parent. I have seen men who feel that this is only there wife duty and all they can do is few things to help. I am surprised that few fathers don't want to do even small thing like changing diaper. But, he always make sure I should get proper rest and quality time for my work. I know that motherhood and fatherhood is a happi-mess but atleast we are holding each hand and walking together to complete <u>it</u> happily.
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21 Sep 2018
pritam Mangesh
Life have ups and downs.. but when I married with Mangesh he make my life colorful with sweet memories... We have some lite fight but tht also we don't kn how convert in love and we can't fight with each other more the 2 min and plus point in us is we accept whoever wrong and say sorry or whoever r8 we appreciate each other .... Now our love bond more tighten because our simboly our baby with us.. as our little star love u both lots...
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21 Sep 2018
Nimmi rathore
My concern , in married life hubby makes it easier after child becoz if he takes care of his wife with her child than cause of fight dies automatically..I think if wife gets special care of her hubby she will never complain for anything ..it <u>sounds</u> funny but my hubby always hug me before my daughter n this thing give me strength to show effective responsibility for both n my family ...#cuddle <font color ="#2b5998"><a href="http://app.babychakra.com/hashtag/communitycuddles"><b>#</b></a></font><a href="http://app.babychakra.com/hashtag/communitycuddles"><b><font color ="#2b5998">communitycuddles</font></b></a>
Sritama Ghosh
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22 Sep 2018