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Do all mils have to make their dil feel insecure by saying I know better about my son. Mothers always know best, I know my son well... Etc etc.

Y does she have to compete or make me feel like a competitor in order to get her son(who is also my husband's) attention,love and care. Y does she have to mention all that she does for her son n create a sympathetic scene out of it????
What do they get???

How much should a dil tolerate? If I tell my husband he will say she(his mother) does this as she feels insecure. Let it be.

But it really hurts me.

What to do?
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Aditi Ahuja

First of all hugs to you dear..and may uncle RIP in heaven.. I agree yaar.. everyone reaps what they sow so we should do good and leave rest for God to handle..Good and bad both karma is dealt with someday..

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Ankita Mishra

<a href="http://app.babychakra.com/user/188062"><b><font color ="#3b5998">Aditi </font></b></a><a href="http://app.babychakra.com/user/188062"><b><font color ="#3b5998">Ahuja</font></b></a> &amp; annon: I think we can become close friends as ur stories hv something in common. Aditi I also thought likewise when I was pregnant. But now I see my mother 's past that how she used to strain her body n do everything as a result god gave her son unmatched this world, who cares for her more than anything. Also God has made her secure with money, property n everything so that she doesn't hv to beg before <u>anyone</u> in future as my father recently died. God watches our actions , he will punish the culprit n evil by offering them horrendous path of life and will offer a soothing journey to person who has struggled. Our journey's are solitary once we leave this life, those people will not carry anything with them or habituate you with anything they like, once gone. So begin everyday thinking they <u>will</u> go one day, do everything for them whether u love them or no, u have to go answer God no matter what n same fr dem.

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Rebecca Prakash

Anon nothing is going to change them and we can only talk about this. All I can say is you ignore her and do what you feel like.. Stand for your baby if you think it's not correct for the baby. No point in arguing with hubby.

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Rebecca Prakash

Anon nothing is going to change them and we can only talk about this. All I can say is you ignore her and do what you feel like.. Stand for your baby if you think it's not correct for the baby. No point in arguing with hubby.

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Aditi Ahuja

Exactly my point dear <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616db0c7b986a10013971bd5 </b></font> only time makes a difference and finding happiness on our own is the way out..thing is that we may give our best in loving our in laws..husband but sometimes reciprocation is less or nil and negativity is too much so better to ignore and start caring less and concentrate on ourselves..my personal life has taught me to love and care for those people only <u>who</u> give that same thing back otherwise after doing and giving too much and getting a heart break every time one feels depressed..

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