Yes for now as I try not to stop her in anything she tries to do rather distract if anything I feel wrong

Yes and no both... For clothes and food he has his choice most of times not always... But big No for his unnecessary demands.

Yes and no...so the obvious can I eat ice cream for dinner...nope no choice. But what he wants to do in the day...in fact increasingly I am trying to make him more <u>aware</u>