Does sindoor and mangalsutra define a woman?

It's an archaic question no doubt but one that is etched perennially in our lives. I for one keep facing it. Imy decisions on wearing certain attires at times does get me into trouble . Why haven't you put your sindoor? Where is your mangalsutra? It is inauspicious not to don them .Don't you care about your husband?

These are some questions that I face. I don't let these affect me. However it does make me contemplate. Is it not enough for the woman to make changes emotionally that she's required to make physical changes too? I am not against traditions but I do believethat they should not be imposed on others. If people are comfortable let them do it, Iif they are not just let me be. I am.not a feminist though at times certain inherent streaks do reflect in me from time to time. I am of the belief that a dot of red vermilion or a chain of black beads don't define me or the kind of person I am, neither does it reflect my sincerity and commitment to my husband.

It is not neccessary for the world to know I am married. I won't change anything physically unless I want to. Until then let me relax, Iput down my hair and revel in my womanhood responsibly.
Do let me know what you all think girls.