Feeling extremely bored and IGNORED by my husband who is my only support. It's been 1 year nd we haven't gone for outing. Earlier it was bcoz i was pregnant nd now bcoz baby is small. He never likes talking or sharing anything with me. Nd the most annoying thing is that he keep saying that i do nothing at home nd i keep saying I'm tired didn't get rest whole day. Whenever i ask to go for an outing he says no not this time better next time nd i always agree with his excuses hoping that next time he'll take me out. I ask him that if he cant go anywhere then let's go to market together we'll buy some small things and get back to home then also he dont agree saying can't u go alone to market y u need me everywhere. Huh! Oopr se my mental MIL with whome I can't sit in the same room bcoz of her bullshit talks. Nd my husband spends 90% of his off days sitting in her room vd our baby nd leaving me alone for long hours dont he even give ot a damn that how i might be feeling 24*7 i work at home nd still get to hear that i do nothing. I feel that some things are meant to b understood nd not said. Today was his off and as usual he just slept whole day and ryt now sitting in her moms room vd baby nd her nd watching news. In d evening i said that I've to buy some winter wers for baby let's go to market he said to kya kren abi chle kya, khrid lenge baad me. In the noon he left me vd baby to make lunch i felt so bad i was handling baby nd making lunch simultaneously.
What to do guys. Babychakra is only where i can share all my worries.😳
Pooja Singh
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Vipra Naik
Communication is the only thing which can help you. Talk to him and explain hpw you feel, i know u must have tried this but keep trying. Also you spend some time with yourself when the baby is with hubby.; Watch some movie online, talk to old friends, listen music or sleep. This will help to refresh you.
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18 Jun 2018
Chanasya
I am happy i found this plateform to share my problem ..else i nvr share my family matter with my frnds or family ..thanks baby chakra
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11 Dec 2017
Chanasya
Very gud ..lets move fwd not fr him fr ourself..
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11 Dec 2017
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Yes chansya lets give ourselves what we deserve. We deserve way more in our lives. Even i was also working b4 marriage nd left the job bcoz my in laws said i dont need to work nd i was a fresher that time. I've always been a bright student in both my school nd college. Nd see where I've reached today. World thinks that i do nothing jbki main din raat kamar tod rhi hu ghar ko smbhalne me. Men don't deserve unconditional love at all. <br>
Let's not blame anybody yaar. Jb hm khud apni importance smjhenge tbhi dusre b hmari importance smjhenge otherwise nhi. So let's be fearless nd thrive in our lives😊😊
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11 Dec 2017
Chanasya
We only give them so much imp thats why they think we are nothing just a responsibilty nothing else..i worked as a banking profesional but he nd his family said i earn gud no need to do job and see how they treat me now ..so understand ur value and move fwd i am also going to do same ...
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18 Jun 2018