Frustrated, depressed,upset,boring don't know what s going on in my life. Till last week I was in my mom s place and I was happy enjoying parenting. This all started after shifting to my hubby s place . I wonder how can people expect a 5 months old baby to adjust to their lifestyle all of a sudden . I feel really bad when people say that and I seriously feel like giving them back properly but I cannot do that . That s where I am facing issues like depression and all . When I was in my mom s place my hubby use to say that he is waiting for us to come there but now just for two days he is losing his cool.

It's a very new place , new faces to my baby and if someone hold him he ll search for me and if he could see me then he will be fine or else he will start crying. It's pretty natural and people here are not understanding that . All are saying my baby is always crying and all . My husband will be always busy with his phone or laptop or PC and he thinks he is not watching any series just because he wants to spend time with baby but still baby is not adjusting. I never expected this from him . I don't know why he has changed alot. And when I said my hubby that he has changed alot he is angry on me.

I feel people here doesn't know priority. Once baby is in home what should be there first priority. All are busy in their own world and poor baby is suffering.

Playing with baby for 5 or 10 mins or once in a while is not spending quality time with baby .  My in laws want to watch serials and baby should sleep and watch TV with them or should play with toys . Array what non sense. And my hubby who is always busy in his phone thinks baby is not recognising his face as he was not here for 10 days .

I feel like they all should need some education on how to handle baby in a soft way so that baby feels comfortable with them .

After staying 7 months in mom's place and dependent on mon for all works like washing clothes of baby, changing diapers, taking care of baby and all its really very difficult to do all baby works and house works all of a sudden . I thought my hubby will help me with this and make me feel comfortable. But NO in return he says he is upset because baby is not going with him.

I need little support and love from you guys . I feel baby chakra as my friend with whom I can share my problems .. so sharing here ..