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❤️ GIVING HER THE FREEDOM! ❤️
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To explore, experience, choose and enjoy the things she wants to do, is what I try.
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It’s not easy to be that patient and I am learning to stay calm. To accept and respect my little being’s choices. 😅 I am not saying I am gonna give in to all her demands and spoil her silly. But then those little things which don’t hurt, don’t harm - we can still be a little chilled about right?
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She is very very clear about what she wants to wear now. Either there is a meltdown when I feel it’s a complete fashion disaster or I just let it be when it’s doable. 😂 Funnily her class teacher influences her hairstyle more than me now. 🙈 I have just made peace with it 😀. Right from books, activities, songs to listen to - she decides for herself, which is good & much more fun.
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And all those times when things do get complicated 😋, I help her with some options to decide on her own. So we both are at peace! 😊
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Ofcourse I do intervene when we are not getting anywhere. But I try and let her take those decisions. It definitely builds her confidence and makes her happier. 🙂
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I put myself in her shoes and then it’s so much more easier for me to understand her better. Also, a little encouragement and being more open can really help them be independent, develop their unique personalities and think for themselves. It’s so much better to have a mind of your own than rely on others.
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What’s your take on giving your kids some freedom & striking a balance while doing so?
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