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Had a arranged marriage before two yrs in a joint family.my in laws have problem wide from starting as M not from their city zone although m from same caste. Since two months it became worst. My mil fil doing partiality between me and my jethani as she is from their city zone.my fil alwz used find faults but I never argued but never in front of my hubby.mil keeps telling me chores n other work.now M mentally tired of all this thing's. Hubby neither took it seriously nor taken my side ever. He keep saying they r oldies now..they won't b changing u need to adjust etc...my jethani enjoys all this n doesn't treat me well.n Feb I lost my mother that time my son was 3 months old that time n I was at my mom's place. .I tried being patient n nice ito them in all way but that all was useless now tired. I donno whom to tell this so shared here. Donno is it right or not.all I want a escape from this humiliation n a peaceful stress free life.
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How can avoid them as I live in a joint family n my son is of juz 8 months. He is der to jz point out the faults.

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Will suggest to avoid all those whom you don’t like. Also y don’t try and keep more busy. First you have a child you must already be busy but even when you get time do what you like. Take up some old hobby like sewing, painting, writing, reading. Will help you vent out the frustration.

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