Have be going through lots of thoughts and feelings after being a mother... a smiley little girl in me who was still a kid has to now take care of a child, the excitement that I had when I first saw that little baby bean on that ultrasound monitor, that little heart beating and as I saw her grow I was in love with her. waiting to hold her in my hands but little did I know with that small little cute bundle of joy that we hold in our hands after 9 months of struggle, comes alot of responsibility. to help that little baby thrive a mother has to go through alot... it's not the 9 months that are difficult it's the journey later that is more difficult..
the struggle to feed the baby, the struggle to learn what is it that the baby is trying to say.. we don't understand clues... We learn, we grow. try to make them feel comfortable in our laps while they sleep, try to calm them when they cry and the list is endless.. our mind fills up with their food and their pee and their poop, that are the only thing that remains on our minds...
in all this struggle it's very easy for a mother to feel emotionally low, trying to cope with everyone's expections we sometimes loose ourselves.. so just a little suggestion to all new mother's, just hang in there it's just a phase and it will pass, people's expections dosen't Matter, keep your calm, love your baby as this days are not coming back, enjoy it and pat your back for doing a great job so far and have confidence that no matter what you will do good..