Hello all...I m bit stressed...my husband loves having his friends over..n I sumhow dnt like them coming over...I have told him that he can call them wenever he wants but I cant get involved everytime they come..all his friends are married so they usually get their wives along but many a times m just not in a mood to entertain them and because of this we fight a lot. He does everything possible to keep me happy and all he expects tht i shud b nice to his friends which I am. I dnt mind meeting them outside but having them at home is sumthn I dnt prefer.
We r fighting over this every other day. Wat should I do.
@Sheeba Vijesh @Priya Sood @asha chaudhry plz help.
We r fighting over this every other day. Wat should I do.
@Sheeba Vijesh @Priya Sood @asha chaudhry plz help.
Try to talk to hubby about meeting outside your home.
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hi anon, why dont u suggest u all meet out together for a change? tell ur hubby u feel like hanging out at some other place wth everyone (or just him!) as u too need a change! give himoptions. ask him what place he wud like to go. keep ur communication open! good luck dear! <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @6372d8dd17d2c800158d9008 </b></font> <b><font color ="#3b5998"> @6372d8bf29c20f001575a1de </font></b> <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616df61eb34e550013eceff8 </b></font>
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Do not say things which you don't want. Don't say "you can call them whenever you want". Instead you should say "I am not in the mood for all this all the time so you should call them whenever we both want them over" say that bluntly but politely and have a mature conversation with your husband. I am sure he will understand your space. Always remember never be diplomatic with your husband. Always speak your mind clearly. Men can never understand complicated things. They just understand straight forward conversations.
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I totally agree with Sheeba. fighting is no solution, sorting it out over an open minded discussion and coming to a mutual understanding is! all the best dear! love
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Shruti Giri
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11 Jun 2017