hello everyone...
after suffering 7 consecutive miscarriages over 3years none making it over 10weeks I am now pregnant for an 8th time successfully at 24weeks with a baby girl.....
i have wanted to become a mother for the past few years and now that it is finally happening i am not as happy as I thought I would be.
I wanted to ask advice without judgments if it is normal for me to hate being pregnant :/ I am ment to be talking to my baby but I don't feel comfortable in doing so especially if anyone is around me.
I feel like there is a lot of pressure on me as I will be a new mother I'm not sure how to feel and I'm finding it really hard to enjoy my pregnancy and I'm afraid I will suffer post partum depression and possibly not bond with my daughter as I did not with my own :/ is there anyone out there who has experienced any of these and if so how do I get through it.
after suffering 7 consecutive miscarriages over 3years none making it over 10weeks I am now pregnant for an 8th time successfully at 24weeks with a baby girl.....
i have wanted to become a mother for the past few years and now that it is finally happening i am not as happy as I thought I would be.
I wanted to ask advice without judgments if it is normal for me to hate being pregnant :/ I am ment to be talking to my baby but I don't feel comfortable in doing so especially if anyone is around me.
I feel like there is a lot of pressure on me as I will be a new mother I'm not sure how to feel and I'm finding it really hard to enjoy my pregnancy and I'm afraid I will suffer post partum depression and possibly not bond with my daughter as I did not with my own :/ is there anyone out there who has experienced any of these and if so how do I get through it.
all the best for this time. even i feel unhappy sonetimes with my unplanned pregnancy but i have accepted it and moving forward with a positive approach. although like u i have not been able to love my baby inside but i am sure with time eveything would fall in place. and btw how do u know its a baby girl ?
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hi dear, it is common to experience all sort of emotions before, while and after pregnancy... even after lovingly talking to your baby for nine months, a mom may just not feel any connect after delivery. you are alright to feel awkward about talking to the bump, i felt awkward talking to my baby in front of others... it often does not come readily... everyday, at a fixed time, pick up a book that you enjoy and read aloud... or just make a commentary of the things you are doing... make this a habit. slowly you might start enjoying sharing your thoughts and likes with the baby. lovingly caress your bump, even if you dont really feel like it. and for any concerns, you can always talk to us. dont worry, you are just overwhelmed by this experience, you will be a great mother... take care dear...
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19 Apr 2017