hi. in laws are very judgemental of working mothers. the only solution I see is letting go. you are trying to control too many things. Focus on work n focus on baby when Ur back. look at the positive that they love their grandkids and are there for him. Ur husband might be a very broad minded guy but when it comes to baby care indian men take a backseat n expect wives to do everything. just let go. take advantage of the interfering territorial in laws!:<u>D</u>

when tried to talk with him calmly, next day told his parents! <br> like this itcwould be impossible, things are deterioratin! i might hace to think abou seperation, i m bearin everythin due to baby! if seperation than babys mental development will be an issue but this atmosphere is also not good for <u>him</u>

I can understand....these situations...I m 37 weeks pregnant..but I m damn sure I m also going to face these situations cz my in-laws are same...n husband too..that's y I have decided not to do job till one year...also i ll tolerate till only I can...n yes u need to be very strong...cz I m at my mamma's place ..they never even discuss how I m my health nothing.....I had atleast 5 to 6 sonographies but not a single time my husband was with me....till 7th month I only took care of mine...with all ghar ka kaam plus job....now from 8th month I m here with my parents...n from in laws side nobody is there to ask how is ur baby...so tell me who gave rights to them to give pampering my child???? but we females are emotionally fool...we love our husbands..but they only follow their responsibilities....I can't give solution...but I must say be strong actually very strong...n u are only the person who can resolve ur problem...have faith...be confident as ull get success n see the challenges....love u god bless <u>u</u>

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hi all the problem is my husband wants to keep in daycare as well as wants his parents all the time and wants me to earn n give half as well!&nbsp;