Hello everyone

Today I want to speak my heart out cause I think this is the right platformshare my state of mind as everyone here are facing same or the other situations....

My lo is 17 months old...

When he was born like all mothers I had so much I my mind regarding how I want to upbring my child. I am a working mother also a daughter of a teacher so I m very disciplined about everything including g from.my eating habits to my way of life my nature ..everything is

Disciplined and this is what I always wished for my boy..

And initial few months went according to me..

But now as my child is growing. He has become a very naughty boy..He doesn't want to eat he doesn't want to sleep he wants to watch videos on phones for which I strictly disallow but he starts crying throwing himself on the floor and doing all the tantrums ...he doesn't want to sit on potty seat ...he doesn't want to drink milk

He runs in the whole house whole day..he doesn't speak much Inpite of me humming and singing in front of him all day

And on top of everything ive been blamed for his this behavior ...my Mil says tujhe bacha palna nahi aaya..

Some other aunty says .era beta to iss umar me ye bolta tha wo bolta tha...potty seat pe potty karta tha...ye khata tha ...tune ise kuch sikhaya nahi hai..

Earlier I used to ignore but now everything is getting on my mind i can't concentrate on my office work I get frustrated n yell on my child which makes him more aggressive..what should I do..

I just want to ask all the ladies HAVE I REALLY FAILED AS A MOTHER..IS IT TRUE KI MUJHE BACHA PALANA NAHI AAYA..

Pls help ..