Hello mommies...

I am getting very stressed now a days because of this perticular thing which i wanted to share.

I live in IIT powai campus. I am mentioning the place so that you can have an idea of how educated  people are here.

My son is 15 mmonths old. He is a superactive kid and i woud really like to mention that he is very sharp n smart whether its observing  things or  his naughtiness. The moment he stepa down the bed he starts his activities... playing, shouting, waking everyone up.. we both his parents are ok qith it.. Me n my husband never felt like he is having anxiety or something else.. bcz we both are very active... my husband can give lecture for 8 hours continuously with 15 minutes break, i can work throughout the day without getting tired even if i sleep for 3-4 hours... i work out , go for swimming every alternate day, i study for my upcoming exams that too competitive, take care of my son single handedly bvz no one there except 3 of us, i cook, i clean my house by myself... i prepare some DIY toys for my son, play with him...n  this i do in time span of 24 hours... I am not praising myself, not at all, i am just explaining my energy level!!!  So its very obvious that my son is superactive!!!

But the thing which is bothering me a LOT now is the parents of the other children's....
1. One mother told me your son is having ADHD, you should consult.

2. Mother of a child who's daughter had given my son biting wounds, telling me to control my son's anger.

3. Mother of a child who started walking at 19 months telling that my son is having bowleg bcz i dnt take care of him.

4. mother of a child who puts finger on other children's mouth, ear, nose, telling me about how my son is ignoring things, whoch he never does

5. Mother of a child who doesn't know the sharing telling me how much my son is stubborn...

6. They keep asking me what the hell i did when i was pregnant that i got this fellow as my son.

7. When somebody is snatching things from my son i will scold him to give it away, bcz you should Share things.

8. When my son is snatching things from others i will scold my son bcz its wrong..

9. When he is not giving away someone will hit or bite him.. when someone is not giving away toys i wil scold him for asking for it...
I am not judging anyone but is it necessary to point out others mistakes to hide yours or your childs... why cant we accept it that kids will be kids even if they are others kida... why they cant reach their kida to behave properly rather than hiding it n commenting on others...

Sorry for the long post... bt m really tensed about it.. some where i am getting angry on my son sometimes... plz help... i am unable to handle this pressure... 😫😫😫