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Hello moms
As you all know Atarah is 10 months now and she is under separation anxiety, Clings to me everywhere even to washrooms 🙄. She is not interested in any of her toys, wants things like bottle, spoon etc but that can keep her busy only for few minutes. As we both are alone it's very difficult for me to handle till evening.
How did you all manage? Any tips?
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Shweta Shukla

I put her in pram when i am in kitchen with wooden spoon and empty closed jar which attracts her lot and keep conversing with her. We both have company.😉 when i clean room i put her in crib where i put her all toys. She stays there and play but i keep conversing with her. When i have to fold clothes i make her sit near me and converse with her and she is more then happy. When i feed her meal i prefer to bring put her in pram and bring her near the window converse with her and make her eat. And when i get tired i make her watch rhymes for while. When i have to go washroom or bath i put her in pram, dont close the door fully give her toy. And from the corner of teh space i keep watvh. When evening her father comes he takes her, we go out we all three for walk for fresh air and to see people around. This is how I manage. Now she is trained for all this and never want to come in lap or cry but yes she needs me around. I know its bit tough but they actually feel safe near us and I beleive its good if they dont get familiar to strangers easily. I hope this could help you dear.

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Revauthi Rajamani

Yeah it was terrible with my younger one. Navneeth was horrible, he did the same thing to me and he didn't even let me go to the loo, shower. The moment he knows I'm not around he screams his heart out. He just hate people coming home, I can't be on phone too. But what helped me was taking him to park, temple where you have a bit of a crowd for almost two weeks every day. He started accepting that his environment is surrounded by a lot of people and he should not cry for mommy. He slowly felt a bit easy seeing people around. He also loved watching rhymes which gave me some breathing time to do house holds.

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