Hello momstars!

I want a suggestion from you all my BABYCHAKRA family of momstars. Tell me if I am wrong? Tell me if I could do anything better?
Currently me and Govind are staying with my parents at nalco nagar angul, which is my father's work place. He is going to retire from job in september this year. After retirement they are going to shift completely to Dhenkanal which is our native place.

They have a flat in an apartment near by the district headquarter hospital.

So, I have taken a flat on rent in the same floor of that apartment. I am planning to join the near by hospital. But my husband is not over with his pHD at IIT BHUBANESWAR yet. Still he is ready to come to dhenkanal every weekend or do to and fro from dhenkanal by train everyday which is around 100 kms away from bhubaneswar. Although its my native place I was born here at grandpa's house, but I haven't stayed here ever for more than 2 days together.

Its a totally new place for us but all my relatives uncles and aunts and grandpa and mom dad are nearby.

At my in laws place my MIl is a working lady. And its in a village. o I have decided to raise Govind here at my native place. My husband has agreed and my in laws too are okay with it.

Still Somewhere I am feeling very unsettled and unsure of everything. Its a dilemma like situation in my mind, that i am doing the right thing or not?

Then I am thinking ki its all for Govind, my life, so that he doesn't have to be away from his father for long time. And we can be together. So i should brace up myself to adjust everything else.
What compromises or sacrifices did you have to make in your journey of parenthood other than the major one i.e. the career which mostly takes a back seat for an indefinite period?
When and how did you face a major change in your lifestyle which you had never anticipated?
Change is inevitable. To cope with it is life after all.