Hello Momstars,i need ur help ! I am not sure if this is right platform as this is also related to BBC.
I got very much addicted to Mobile since my pregnancy, me and husband were just 2 members, i quit job just before i got pregnant and culdnt get another job bcz why anyone will hire already pregnancy mother. I used to be alone and started spending more tine on 6/7prenancy apps including bbc. Yes 6/7 though all of them had exact same info abt weekly growth dev of babies, diet, care etc etc. I was not much active on chats but used to just read.
After heer birth i am addicted to one app which helps to cound feeding duration, frequency, weight height tracjers, pee poop count, activity tracker etc. Till last week, for ladt 3months i was so obsessed wd that app that if baby was superhingry then also i use to keep her waiting open the app n tap on feeding, choose breat side etc🤦🤦 i was that mad..i became so restless...and stopped noting everything on app..after lot of struggle.
My mother scolds me a lot as i am always glued to mobile, dnt take rest, dnt speak to family members and on mobile all tine as if its my only job..
The time i saved while detaching frm that app, i still spend on watching webseries, movies, bbc, instagram, fb etc.
I feel guilty niwdays, that i am not focusing on my child, not gicing her time, even while feeding i keep searching stupid queries on google, or just keep reading anything related to baby...
I used to play wd her and have almost stopped that since a week unknowingly...i feel guilty nowdays that is that the reason she is not latching well, refuses to take feed and angry on me?
I got very much addicted to Mobile since my pregnancy, me and husband were just 2 members, i quit job just before i got pregnant and culdnt get another job bcz why anyone will hire already pregnancy mother. I used to be alone and started spending more tine on 6/7prenancy apps including bbc. Yes 6/7 though all of them had exact same info abt weekly growth dev of babies, diet, care etc etc. I was not much active on chats but used to just read.
After heer birth i am addicted to one app which helps to cound feeding duration, frequency, weight height tracjers, pee poop count, activity tracker etc. Till last week, for ladt 3months i was so obsessed wd that app that if baby was superhingry then also i use to keep her waiting open the app n tap on feeding, choose breat side etc🤦🤦 i was that mad..i became so restless...and stopped noting everything on app..after lot of struggle.
My mother scolds me a lot as i am always glued to mobile, dnt take rest, dnt speak to family members and on mobile all tine as if its my only job..
The time i saved while detaching frm that app, i still spend on watching webseries, movies, bbc, instagram, fb etc.
I feel guilty niwdays, that i am not focusing on my child, not gicing her time, even while feeding i keep searching stupid queries on google, or just keep reading anything related to baby...
I used to play wd her and have almost stopped that since a week unknowingly...i feel guilty nowdays that is that the reason she is not latching well, refuses to take feed and angry on me?
@616e4935b34e550013ed78c5 <u>yes</u> dear I understand that fear of yours but it's definitely true that during this phase your instinct works best. You know your child better than anyone (not even your MIL knows her better than you 😜). You know that when she's hungry and when she just needs attention so just follow your inner voice and enjoy your motherhood 🤗
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<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616e4935b34e550013ed78c5 </b></font> yes write in word and paste it here..... still i fail to make a single post evrytime.... it gets posted multiple times. Ignoring is best. And follow ur instincts more than anything else as suggested by <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @5fedec01cccb6d0014097596 </b></font> ur motherly instincts will work the best for ur baby and the more time u spend closely with ur baby.... the finer ur instincts will become. U ll pick up her instincts instantly at fingertips and like magic.
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<span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @616e02d2ca67e40013abde59 </b></span> yes my focus is on baby, just the fear of missing out an impnpeice of information i kp reading lot of things...n unknowingly got addicted.yes soending quality time wd her since begining it was just a phase, maybe i was tired, clueless...loat smwhere Thanks a lot ☺️
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<span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @5fedec01cccb6d0014097596 </b></span> yes..by now already took steps wd motivating comments 👍😊 <br>
<span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @61321b0072030000142f22c9 </b></span> yes dear so happy that i posted here !!
<span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @616df4b7b986a10013979f51 </b></span> thank u so much for tagging fellow momsters ☺️
<span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @6170259aade2a9001326c96a </b></span> <br>
Reg editing-this means we shoud write posts smwhere in clipboard n then paste here..<br>
.. as you know i owe u lot many thanks...not only for this ☺️<br>
This community indeed is non judgemental. I am at my MILs place she is sweetheart but facing lot of judgementa statements ...telling me how i know nothing abt babies....m just trying to ignore..will speak to u on this later
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04 Jun 2019