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hello.. not sure if we can ask such doubts here.. please ignore if irrelevant... my husband and I seem to have drifted apart after having a baby.. how can I rekindle our relationship.. we have unnecessary arguments over small issues also.. there is no passion between us now.. I really miss our fun times..
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asha chaudhry

<span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @616db18c5988200013dcaeda </b></span> pls post ur query separately so we can get experts to address it if need <u>be</u>

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Deep Verma

look I feel ya...I will always say...you can never be too cautious. You can always check to see if there is another woman. Look, it may sound horrible and I hope it's not even true but there is no harm in being a little extra careful. And this is also to put your mind at ease. You guys probably didn't do it for atleast a good 10 months or so. Now I am not judging what kind of person he is but there are so many possibilities. And please don't become paranoid and obsessed with this now. Just explore but without any bias. The other things may or may not be: 1. You are too focused on the baby which is a good thing but maintain a balance. You shouldn't look like a bad mother or a bad wife. Rather you should become the best of both. 2. Stay a little erotic in appearance. At all times when he is around. But do not show desperation. 3. Please oh please do not ask questions like "you don't love me anymore or you don't find me sexy (etc.) anymore. 4. Smell nice all the times. Trust me, this is important. 5. Maintain the "whatever" attitude. But this is good whatever...and not "i don't care whatever". You do care but you are way too cool too be way too disrupted by any damn thing. 6. Whatever you say should be sensible. Don't bring anymore TV soap scenarios...if you ever did before. This is like unbearably annoying. 7. I once read somewhere and I totally agree "there should always be a little bit of mystery about a woman". So...if you haven't opened your every card already...good...now you should conceal a couple more. If you did, let him keep guessing weather there are any cards left or not. 8. Maybe make him feel a little jealous. Now this will need a lot of talent. As a man, I know, no matter how fed up a man is from his girlfriend/wife, he is still jealous in a situation where he sees his woman being adored by another man. And he is even more jealous if the woman acknowledges and is blushing about it. But this as I said before will need to be handled with great precision or it can back fire. Look, I have just given you a male perspective on this. But every male is different. And you know your man better than anyone who is going to advise you on this. These points are just for you to ponder over them. Make a game plan by precisely putting every bit of information together. Start with a very low intensity like .25 out of 10. Don't overkill it. I really hope that it's nothing. And I really hope it works out between you two. BEST WISHES. GOD BLESS YOU AND HIM AND THE BABY. PS: Be careful about the vaccination of your kido. Ask the side effect of every needle and if there are any ways up, below or around it. This is really important. Salut

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manveen dua

Hi Anony, I really do think I unserstand what you are going through. While its not the best situation, its one that you will have to overcome. I have written a few articles about this and theh have been listed above. If you need anything, just leave me a message. I'm sure your husband misses you too. Forget the baby for once and think about him...you might fins yiur answer there

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Saher Iftikhar

It's something very much normal and expect post baby.. it takes a while for a man to accept that's he's a father, his wife will be shared, the attention he; agot from you before is now diverted.. plus the home atmosphere changes.. so yeah this happens.. give it time.. and it will all fall in place.

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Anjali Choudhary

Dnt worry everything is normal after some time. Spend some quality time together. Baby is a chain between u two.

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