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hi all... at my place girl aftrr her first delivery of baby she should be at her mom's place at least for 9 months so m at my mom's place...but here even my brother n sisters kids need to be taken care of my mom as they ll go for work.. even  those kids r very small... but very naughty...Now my baby S 3 months old...m feeling very frustrated n irritated as those kids ll make more noice as our home is small..m not getting peaceful tym for me n my baby...bcz of this m unable to concentrate on my baby...my mom can't take care  of my baby for some tym aswell as she needs to take care of my brother n sisters kids as even they r small n she ll do household work...i feel to go back to my husband place but my mom may feel bad if I go... even der no one ll b der to take care but at least I can b peacefull

m so frustrated of kids noice here... my husband lol b most of the tym in his work I can't take his help as well... Wat to do please suggest...
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sonam patel

if you don't have to follow this traditional strictly.. then openly talk to your mom.. as moms are our best friends.. she will understand..

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asha chaudhry

i wud suggest u ask ur husband to request ur mom to send u back. that way she wont feel bad. <b><font color ="#3b5998"> @61321b91c71eba0013440537 </font></b> <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @6372999217d2c800158d8bec </b></font> pls advise

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Sheeba Vijesh

hi dear, there are women here who are wishing they could go to mom's house... how different everyone's problems are! actually, since she is your mother, couldn't you have a direct conversation about going to hubby's place? tell her that she is already burdened with so much work and it would be good if you could go for 1 or 2 months to hubby's place. btw, are your in-laws open to the idea of breaking the tradition? if yes, then talk to your mom...

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