Hi everyone I am in very upset. And not able to concentrate on my work. yesterday I had an argument with my husband over an issue. and in the evening he went out of station for a previously planned official tour. but from yesterday evening till now he didn't call me asking about me or my 3 months old baby. I have always realised that he is very egoistic but I never thought that he can do that to our baby. I am handling my baby alone. How can someone forget to ask about his own child! Please suggest me. if I; am wrong.
Thank you so much everyone and Rebecca I must say I smiled as I read u, I mean about your mil that she cut the call as she was watching you tube 😁😁😁. But will do as you suggested.
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I know how you feel as a mom, when he comes speak with him. Is he bonding well with the baby? Archita sometimes men doesn't show their emotions and love as an adult we can understand but babies won't, So speak to the baby about his/her dad and do the same with Mr. Daddy. Throughout my pregnancy my husband was not there, he was there only for 2 weeks after my daughter was born. He came back to India when she was 3 months and the real bonding began. Yesterday we had a small incident at home and I was impressed with my husband.. Baby was excited the moment I did video call (she loves to see everyone) to my sister but he number dint go through, I tried <u>my</u> husband he cut it and texted back he is in a meeting, called my mil and she was busy so cut it(😠😠😠 she was busy watching YouTube) baby was so upset and I could see her face changed completely, I texted my husband nobody picked up so she is upset, he put a hold on the meeting for 5 mins came out and called her 😂. This is the power of bonding... So dear you be the bridge of this bonding. Take a photo of your baby now and send it to your husband and say " Miss you Papa".
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Hey dear every married women face these kind of situation n sometimes husbands become really egoistic in silly matters so don't worry this is just time being may be he has not get time to call you in ofc work.. you can call him to ask abt him... Dear in marriage husband or wife in both one has to bend their knees then only married life will be smooth n successful... If he didn't call you... Then you call him definitely he will be very happy... All the best 😊👍
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Thank you everyone for your suggestions. Feeling much relieved. Will surely try to take myself out of it. But you know, sometimes it's difficult not to argue when someone provokes you or puts allegations on you without any reason.
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Rebecca Prakash
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30 May 2018