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Hi guys..i hv a bby gal of 4 yr. Now i want another bby bt my hubby is nt at ol in mood to hv a chance...when i ask him tht if v vl hv in future he says yes v vl do in future ....but whenver i got news abt sumones pregnancy or bby my heart goes down coz i also want....

Moreover frm sumtym we r nt intimating so much lyk once in 2 or 3 mnth...its nt lyk we dnt luv we r fond pf eachother bt things roll lyk we dont get tym or space for ourself...

Now i want ur help either i m thinking so much or let the thing go vth the flow..plz guys help me out i m very depressed vth this topic n i need sum serious help
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Rebecca Prakash

First why he is not agreeing? Are you financially stable to bring up another child into this world? Plus do you have family support to take care of the elder one? So you need to think and discuss all this with him and then decide. Having a Baby is mutual consent and both of you should be on same page. Don't feel upset about this, he is right according to him and you are also right.

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Aditi Ahuja

It's a big responsibility and both spouses should agree on this.. these days life most people is too full of work and stressful..so talk to each other..spend quality time together.. Understand each other's perspective and then take decision

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Revauthi Rajamani

Hi<br> Communication works better. Discuss with your husband on a serious note that you are interested n why he is not. Come to mutual conclusion

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Priya Sood

Better to talk more with your husband. Understand why and what your future plans are. Having a child is important for both parents to be willing and Happy

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Pooja Singh

Dear as u know with babies immense responsibilities too come. So let ur hubby too get mentally prepared for the 2nd child. Give him one more year and then talk to him what does he thinks now. As u said u both are already not getting time and space fir each other so if you'll conceive during this period this issue will get even worse so don't be in hurry. Have some patience. Sabra ka fal meetha hota hai. &#128522;

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