Hi, I need emotional help.. I'm 7weeks pregnant.. My in laws are very ignorant and fake. Mom in law is super fake, she doesn't even know what to give me to eat, nor bother to actually give me food in between.. She just fake by saying all nonsense that she will take care of me.. I'm living with in laws.. I feel extremely down in afternoon, though my doctor has asked me for bedrest also, I do mostly everything on my own related to my food.. She keeps judging me all day.. I make sure I take high nutrients everyday.. I'm getting emotionally very disturbed coz of inlaws.. They had been bad with me since my marriage.. Does my baby will also get my emotions transferred to him/her? How should I make myself emotionally OK.. Every act of them disappoint me, God knows she doing everything so that I go to my mom's place till birth.. So that she should not have to do anything.. Please help. I cry everyday coz of them
In-laws are like that only, tough ppl. <br>
1. Ignore them n do whatever u feel like doing for the sake of baby becoz no matter how good u do, they are going to judge u n find faults <br>
2. Make sure your husband sees whatever is going on <br>
3. Be strict for the sake of ur future<br>
4. Don't expect any help from them, do ur work esply kitchen stuff or appoint a maid <br>
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Also don't cry, talk to nice people... People who make you feel good... Invite them to your house...surround yourself with <u>positivity</u>. At 7 weeks of pregnancy there are some basics you need to follow... Avoid papaya, pineapple, junk food, take lots of milk, eat nutritious food. I am sharing with you a snapshot of the food chart provided by ruchuta diwakar in her book pregnancy... It will be helpful.this is only for the 1st trimester...
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Hi dear it's true... Even I was facing the same situation and I decided to come to my mother's house... But now I feel I took away some of the precious time me and my hubby could spend together with the lil one. It's my 5th month running and now after spending some 2 months here.. Me and my hubby have decided to go back, hire a full time maid for myself. But the most important thing u have learnt is as a mother it's we who should be taking care of our babies and ourselves... Why expect from someone who has already indicated that they won't be supportive.... It's not necessary to waste your time and energy fighting such ppl... Spend time listening to garbh sanskar, talk to the baby, spend quality time with your husband, pray, learn about some nutritious recipes... Sleep a lot... Give rest to your body and mind..and most importantly IGNORE all negative ppl and energies.
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Anon.har lady ko is situation se gujarna padta hai n ye normal hai,sbke samne show krte hai in law ki hum care krte hai par aisa nahi,muje 9 month tak vomit hue last 2 month me mummy ke yha chali gye koi care nahi krta hubby ne ki bus n mother father ne,aap bhi apni mom ke yha raho.apni care kro apse koi or bhi juda hua hai.
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Bisma banu
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26 Jan 2018