don't know what to do...I guess m too much possessive about my baby n his care he is 3.5 months old...if anyone in my family hold or carry baby , 'I always say 'oh don't carrt baby lyk dis way n dont do dis wid baby n blah blah all'
my husband sometimes irritated wid this but n then we had huge fight ,argument n fight, n again it'll effect baby also but no1 understands me n all..
😓😔😞😟😢. plzzz Mommies help me n n suggests how can I change my this habbit... I seriously don't know wat to say n wat to do...so helpless...
Meenakshi Bhargav
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Meenakshi Bhargav
yeah totally agreed wid <u>u</u><u><font color ="#3b5998"><b> @610c2e0b1fb553001b3023e7 </b></font></u> thanku dear . my mum also tell me dat let other also.hold Ur baby don't let baby only upto urself..baby also want different people n touch if I do so u also feel.gud n they will carry baby for <u>few</u> minutes but at the baby will obviously come to u by them
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11 Aug 2017
Pooja Singh
i too feel lyk this. but its imp to let ur baby know different touches nd people in his family. it's not ryt to keep ur baby <u>to</u> urself only. elders won't harm ur baby while carrying or holding him bcoz they know well how to hold a baby so u dont worry just learn to trust on them. it's happening just bcoz u love nd care ur baby a lot. I'm too learning to trust others for holding my baby. it gives me time to rest nd come back with positive energy to care my baby again. so dont get obsessed with being alone with ur baby share the joy with others too. dont feel insecure of loosing ur importance to ur baby or getting ur baby hurt by others. try to stay calm nd start doing this by giving ur baby to others for few minutes in a day nd slowly u'll find that it's gud to let ur baby spend some time with other family members too. it gives him more exposure in his development nd u wud also get some me time nd  wud create a gud environment at home. d sad part is that other ladies in our family too dont understand that we r not doing this out of jealousy but it's just as natural as it happened to dem when they became a mother....<br>
take <u>care</u>
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11 Aug 2017
Dr.Dhanya Prajesh
its fine dear... most mothers hv tat prob in d begining... jus relax... if u feel someone is holdin d baby wrong u can tell but not rudely... u r d mother so its ok.. but try controllin urself for small small things...
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11 Aug 2017
manasa
facing same <u>prblm</u>
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11 Aug 2017
Meenakshi Bhargav
hmmm yes U r ryt...may m insecure...but I think I HV to change this...n clear in my mind that they'll not harm my baby or do anything wrong...I'll try to do <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @59b27f00871e4064a05bc442 </b></font>
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