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hi moms its really urgent...my baby had fallen frm bed in mrng she cried a lot for more than 15 mins she had swelling in her head...I took her to the doc. he said nothing to worry n to give p125 drops for pain relief..bt im nt convinced...I left her to my hubby to take care of her bt he didn't look after her...im really fed up n feeling guilty...I should have nt left her to him..he is very careless n nt even interested to look after baby...im hepless n feeling like a hell on seeing my baby cry...I think tat im nt fit to b a good mom
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Sheeba Vijesh

bhuvana, offer her feed at intervals. observe for any changes in behaviour for 48 hours too... she'll be fine, don't worry...

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Neha Sharma

hey bhuvana, hugs to u dear. pls don't say like this, there can be no one better than a mother and a father to a baby. u know there was an incidence where me and my hubby were standing and talking while our lo was playing just a feet away from us, we saw him running towards the table and somehow knew that he would fall but it was a split second and we couldn't do anything, he hit his nose at the corner of the glass table and started bleeding. u see even if we were so close to save him but sometimes we can't blame ourselves because the situations turn like that. babies fall and get hurt, this is part of their growing up journey. pls go talk to ur husband and tell him it was not his fault otherwise he may feel a lot more guilty than u..he needs ur support the way u need his. don't worry much. ❤

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Sumira Bhatia

bhuvana lots of blessings to you and the baby.  I am sure he is perfectly fine,  if the doc says so . if you still feel uneasy then get a second opinion. but don't blame yourself.  remember when you were a kid?  how many times did you fall?  it is all a part of growing up. don't be too harsh on yourself or your husband.  you're doing the best you can!  lots of love to you 💞

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Bhuvana Venkat

thank u very much @aditi n sheeba..bt she is nt taking feed since eve...

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Sheeba Vijesh

hey bhuvana, don't ever be so harsh on yourself yaar... hugs to you.... you are a mom, not a robot, do understand that... and you are a great mom, all this happens. don't blame yourself, and maybe even hubby must be feeling bad. in future, try keeping baby on floor mattress only, things only get more dangerous as baby starts moving around...

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