Bahut low feel kr rhi hu esa lag rha h ki koi meri parwah nhi karta mere hubby ke alawa. Mere hubby real me meri bahut care karte h but my mom and my mil unko koi matlab nhi h unki bato se lagta h ki main un par bojh hu
Meko ye smj nhi aa rha ki delivery kaha karwau kyuki wo dono hi nhi chahte ki unke pas ho meri mil delivery jesi problem lena nhi chahti and meri mom sochti h ki ye mere sasural walo ka kam h wo presan kyu ho sayad kharche se bhi darte h
Directly koi nhi kahta par unki bato se yahi lagta h
Kya kru friends main bahut roti hu ye bate soch kar meri mil se to koi umeed nhi h but kya mumma ko ye bat bol du ki main unki in bato se bahut presan hu.; M almost depression me ja chuki hu hubby smjte h or unko bhi nhi bol skti koi rasta nhi dikh rha h; kya kru. ????
priyanka sain
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Dr shravya
As per my opinion u can speak to ur husband and parents, u cannot expect ur mil to do all post delivery things.u can speak to ur mother openly..if they feel that ur burden to them...speak to ur husband ask him to spend money...if money is the matter.
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28 Mar 2018
Anonymous
Thanks Richa m apni mil ke pas rahti hu .jab meko lga ki meri mil care nhi kregi tab mene mumma ke pas jane ke liye bol diya ab mumma bol rhe h ki delivery ke 7 days bad wapas bhej dugi sasural. ... ye problem h me kisi par bojh nhi banana <u>chahti</u>
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28 Mar 2018
Richa
Hey anon... delivery Jahan aap rehte ho wahi karo.. aapni mom or MIL ko bula lo.. let’s say immediately delivery me baad apni mom ko bula lo like for a month then for a month MIL ko bula lo.. by then aap settle ho jaoge baby lemme Saath.. ek full time help Rakh lo..
Aap apni mom se ek baar baat karo.. aapni mom aapko samjhegi... hubby se baat karo.. aapne kaha samajhate hai aapko so talk to him.. don’t cry that not good for ur health and baby’s health too...
Dr shravya
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28 Mar 2018