hii mommies.. I m 26 weeks pregnant. I m living with my in laws. Husband chahte hai ki meri delivery bhi yehi ho in laws k ghr pe. But mai ghr k kam krti hu to mujhe bahut pain hota h back,legs and stomach me. jiske karan mai rat ko so bhi nahi pati. Mummy k ghr jane k liye bolti hu husband naraz ho jate hai. Agar mai zid kr k mummy k ghr chale gai to wo mujhse bat bhi nahi krenge..he has clearly told me. Apni mom k against kuch nahi sunna chahte wo. Mujhe smjh nahi aa rha kya karu kaise smjhau husband ko. I want to be stress free n happy and also dont want to hurt my husband as he is very caring but in laws nahi krte care.. mommies plz help..
your husband is only your solution... just tell him that you are unable to do lots of works and you are suffering from pain... may b tell him that we should keep a maid for some chores.. make him realise that you are going through stress which is not at all good for the baby... even then if he doesn't listen then finally you will have to take help of your gynaecologist... tell her to talk about rest with your husband. <br>
take care dear and always feel free to share anything with us.
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hello. anon... actually aaj bhi kayi families me ghar ki mahilaon ko lagta hi ki jaise unke time wo kaam krte the aur bachche b hote the waise hi aaj ki b ladkiyan karen. jbki unhe samajhna chahiye ki tab aur ab me bahut fark hai... aap apne husband aur mother in law k sath doctor k pas jao..aur unke samne doctor wo sari baaten kahen jinse aapko parhej krna hai..aur aapki body me ye prblms kyun horahi..tb shayad thoda samjhen!
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Expecting Mom should have her delivery wherever she is comfortable, Don't why some husbands don't understand this basic thing. Anyways if doing lot of work is issue for you then speak with your gynaecologist in private and let her know, She can give u bed rest and you can take rest. .
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stress aapke baby ke liye bilkul theek nai hai. aap pyaar aur tareeke se apne husband ko samjhao.  against Kuch mat bolo. bas raat ko generally bolo ki aaj bahut ho raha hai woh bole kyu toh aap bol sakte ho ki kaam zyada kar liya.  kal weekend hai jab woh aapko kaam karte dekhe to shayad aap hi keh denge shift ho <u>jao</u>. aap apne doc se kahe ki husband ko bole ki apko rest ki zaroorat <u>hai</u>
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07 Jul 2017