Things are not same as they are in first pregnancy. You can ask ppl diplomaticly what you want from them, try to find as there is always a way out. And plz accept this fact that for some time that things are not going to be according to you every time now you need to relax and ignore sometimes as we are not in situation to handle all alone at least they are taking care of kid may be your way don't Match them but let it be for some time and ignore if possible(I am doing so, right now most of the toys of my younger one is on floor but who will pick them&#128557; so I am ignoring it &#128514;or I will ask him to pick toys.) and you have to think of baby in womb too he depends on you so take a back seat for some time like 9 months&#128514;&#128514;&#128514; <u>enjoy</u>

Koi kuch bolta hai muje feel ho jati hai n agar meri daughter k sath koi careless; baat hoti to muje feel hota hai kuki main try karti hu usse poori care doon as possible as but mere according ho nhi pata then it hurts me a lot even i try to ignore many things as possible as but kab tak kafi time to main kisi ko kuch bol bhi nhi pati to stress bahot hai n m afraid ki iska in sabka asar meri first baby pe bhi padh sakta hai but i helpless

But how should i ignore things happening around me which i d'nt like family talks etc and m very soft hearted person n dis is my second pregnancy..

It can cause big harm to baby more then you think, I have gone through <u>this</u>

Happy mother makes a happy baby.