It is not so easy to be calm mom when the kid have fun. They flee here and there and so much choas. They just want our attention and a little love,they want us to be with them all the time .
As mother and home maker, we have a so much responsibility and task to be completed .till it get done we don't have little patience . Sometimes I get so much frustrations and stressed that I yell at my kid without reason . I feel bad after that and I go to him .he hug me and say sorry to me even I do same with a smile .He knows that how to make make me calm better than myself 😊.
Now when my in-laws goes to native place I make sure to complete all work before my kid wake up from sleep so that I can my 100% attention to him.sometimes I leave unwashed dishes in a sink and play with him till he get tired and sleep.
My kid is hyper active and also demands my attention so often.I play the song I give him simple task like arranging books, folding clothes and organise his toys till then I sweep and mop the floor .I reward him with making his favourite snacks .We play some puzzles then tease eachother like a friends. We watch our favourite cartoon the Masha and bear in nick Jr channel .Then one hour I will make him sleep so that I can complete remaining work .
Actually we are calm moms ,we know how to give attention specially to our kids how to make them smile .They are our special ones isn't it .They won't understand why we get stressed until we make them understand that we also need some time give example with our simple routine .Kids below the age of 5 to years won't understand ie toddlers .one such big thing which keep us busy is our house chores that's it.
Saumya pillai
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21 Apr 2020